Hello Everyone!
I didn't have the time to read or respond to many new posts today. Work has been busy, and I'm helping a friend with the loss of her mother. Her mother died in November.
I hope everyone is doing fine! I have been journaling about my feelings, and wondering/analyzing what is different about this year, and praying that my normal feelings stay this way. I will download that mood chart that Paul spoke of in one thread that I just read.
The major thing that changed this year for me is my stress level at work. I decreased my workload by almost 50% this year. If anyone is interested, I do have some good books that I have read this year, that may have contributed to my upswing. Everyone is different, but these inspirational books might work for some. I will post them soon!
I do have a question however----this friend that lost her mother seems to be have been smoking marijuana for various reasons over a period of 9 years. She now insists that she started it due to chronic pain, and that her GP knows about it. Now, as stress levels increase, she is doing this more and more. She insists that it's better, and less addictive, than the drugs that her pdoc and her GP have asked her to take.
I am NOT knowledgable in this area at all. I just worry about ANY drug, prescription or not, and its effects on the human brain. Doctors are the only ones that should prescribe it. I do think marijuana should be legalized, for the simple fact that when something is taboo, it seems that more people want it. I know many professionals that smoke it once in a while to de-stress. However, taken everyday is concerning to me---does anyone know the effects, or any good reputable sites that I can look into this weekend when I have more time??? Is it better than most addictive pain killers??? I have no idea....
I am worried since she is getting very irritable when I bring stressful subjects up. She even commented that I should have taken it when I was depressed (and really belittled me about the EFFLEXOR that I was taking during my episode). I see her resting in bed more (she can't sleep through the night), and becoming more and more depressed. It is over the two week period. I am hoping that she goes to her pdoc soon, but she is insisting that no one would understand--unless they suffered to a loss of a parent at a young age (27). I do know what depression is, and the evil cloud that lingers is sooo frightening. All I can do now is be there for her. This weekend, I dropped all my work and stayed with her. Taking her mind off things was good, and I tried to get her to focus on the here and now. Laughter really helped.
Anyhow, we just had a phone discussion that concerned me. I ignore her when she puts me down, but I'm not a good oral communicator, and feel that I am doing more harm than good when I ask her to stop smoking and do other things to reduce her stress levels. We ALL have a vice (mine is food), and I don't want to appear judgmental. Is marijuana better than other drugs?? I just think drugs are not the answer. Please help!
Thanks! M
I didn't have the time to read or respond to many new posts today. Work has been busy, and I'm helping a friend with the loss of her mother. Her mother died in November.

I hope everyone is doing fine! I have been journaling about my feelings, and wondering/analyzing what is different about this year, and praying that my normal feelings stay this way. I will download that mood chart that Paul spoke of in one thread that I just read.
The major thing that changed this year for me is my stress level at work. I decreased my workload by almost 50% this year. If anyone is interested, I do have some good books that I have read this year, that may have contributed to my upswing. Everyone is different, but these inspirational books might work for some. I will post them soon!
I do have a question however----this friend that lost her mother seems to be have been smoking marijuana for various reasons over a period of 9 years. She now insists that she started it due to chronic pain, and that her GP knows about it. Now, as stress levels increase, she is doing this more and more. She insists that it's better, and less addictive, than the drugs that her pdoc and her GP have asked her to take.
I am NOT knowledgable in this area at all. I just worry about ANY drug, prescription or not, and its effects on the human brain. Doctors are the only ones that should prescribe it. I do think marijuana should be legalized, for the simple fact that when something is taboo, it seems that more people want it. I know many professionals that smoke it once in a while to de-stress. However, taken everyday is concerning to me---does anyone know the effects, or any good reputable sites that I can look into this weekend when I have more time??? Is it better than most addictive pain killers??? I have no idea....
I am worried since she is getting very irritable when I bring stressful subjects up. She even commented that I should have taken it when I was depressed (and really belittled me about the EFFLEXOR that I was taking during my episode). I see her resting in bed more (she can't sleep through the night), and becoming more and more depressed. It is over the two week period. I am hoping that she goes to her pdoc soon, but she is insisting that no one would understand--unless they suffered to a loss of a parent at a young age (27). I do know what depression is, and the evil cloud that lingers is sooo frightening. All I can do now is be there for her. This weekend, I dropped all my work and stayed with her. Taking her mind off things was good, and I tried to get her to focus on the here and now. Laughter really helped.
Anyhow, we just had a phone discussion that concerned me. I ignore her when she puts me down, but I'm not a good oral communicator, and feel that I am doing more harm than good when I ask her to stop smoking and do other things to reduce her stress levels. We ALL have a vice (mine is food), and I don't want to appear judgmental. Is marijuana better than other drugs?? I just think drugs are not the answer. Please help!
Thanks! M
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