Well, here's where I'm at. I've been flailing around with my eating for the past few weeks and it is really getting to me. I tell myself I'm my own worst enemy and beat myself up, which only makes things worse because then I want to hide from the world.
I'm not overweight according to the BMI (body mass index) charts, so it's not that. I know all about calories and nutrition and exercise and fitness, so it's not that. It seems to be about destructive habits and why I'm not changing them. And that's not just with eating, it's with other things too.
I can come on here and say I stuffed my face with junk in front of the TV last night or I haven't been moving my body lately, and although it helps to vent, the behaviours continue. Do I want to invite health problems that are avoidable (I know some aren't but some are)? No. Do I want to feel pukey when I wake up in the morning? No. Do I want to wear my nice clothes that are too tight (and this takes into account shape-shifting thanks to ageing)? Hell yes.
I eat, all too often, to avoid feeling. Emotional eating, it's called. Lately I've been sensing old emotional triggers being activated, and I don't like it. I have had them activated before, many times, but I avoid looking at them, avoid going there, because it feels uncomfortable and I'd rather not. But I guess I will have to if I want anything to change. It scares me. A lot.
Feeding my body low-grade fuel, not giving it the activity it craves, hiding behind my apartment door because of fears that I don't understand is *not* how I want to live. I have made strides in overcoming this sort of thing in the past, and yet here it is again, and getting worse.
I have had what I call big-D major depression too often in my life, and I know its power. I also know that something *else* is at work here, which is actually more confusing to me than big-D depression, because I haven't faced it or accepted it in the same way. What the &*#$ is going on here?
Any input would be appreciated.
I'm not overweight according to the BMI (body mass index) charts, so it's not that. I know all about calories and nutrition and exercise and fitness, so it's not that. It seems to be about destructive habits and why I'm not changing them. And that's not just with eating, it's with other things too.
I can come on here and say I stuffed my face with junk in front of the TV last night or I haven't been moving my body lately, and although it helps to vent, the behaviours continue. Do I want to invite health problems that are avoidable (I know some aren't but some are)? No. Do I want to feel pukey when I wake up in the morning? No. Do I want to wear my nice clothes that are too tight (and this takes into account shape-shifting thanks to ageing)? Hell yes.
I eat, all too often, to avoid feeling. Emotional eating, it's called. Lately I've been sensing old emotional triggers being activated, and I don't like it. I have had them activated before, many times, but I avoid looking at them, avoid going there, because it feels uncomfortable and I'd rather not. But I guess I will have to if I want anything to change. It scares me. A lot.
Feeding my body low-grade fuel, not giving it the activity it craves, hiding behind my apartment door because of fears that I don't understand is *not* how I want to live. I have made strides in overcoming this sort of thing in the past, and yet here it is again, and getting worse.
I have had what I call big-D major depression too often in my life, and I know its power. I also know that something *else* is at work here, which is actually more confusing to me than big-D depression, because I haven't faced it or accepted it in the same way. What the &*#$ is going on here?
Any input would be appreciated.
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