Hi there!
I wasn't sure if I should post here, or in the "introduce yourself" section, but I decided on here.
My boyfriend has serious anxiety and depression issues that are affecting our relationship. By the sounds of it, he has always had these problems, but they have become worse. He has regular emotional outbursts (of anxiety) and it affects daily activities. He doesn't sleep, or oversleeps. He is physically achy, often. He refuses to get help, because he thinks they're going to medicate him against his will, and he will somehow not be the person he is now. He thinks these problems will just eventually get better on their own, and he'll "live with it".
I've left him pamphlets, listened, suggested, held his hand, offered to go as support, and to no avail.
It's starting to take a toll on me, and our relationship I fear. I feel like I can't handle it anymore, and I don't know what to do. I love him dearly, but it's beginning to affect me, and I don't think I can let that happen.
I'm sure there are some of you out there that have experienced something similar before, and I'm hoping that you might be able to provide some insight for me. I don't know what to do anymore.
Thanks for listening
CB
I wasn't sure if I should post here, or in the "introduce yourself" section, but I decided on here.
My boyfriend has serious anxiety and depression issues that are affecting our relationship. By the sounds of it, he has always had these problems, but they have become worse. He has regular emotional outbursts (of anxiety) and it affects daily activities. He doesn't sleep, or oversleeps. He is physically achy, often. He refuses to get help, because he thinks they're going to medicate him against his will, and he will somehow not be the person he is now. He thinks these problems will just eventually get better on their own, and he'll "live with it".
I've left him pamphlets, listened, suggested, held his hand, offered to go as support, and to no avail.
It's starting to take a toll on me, and our relationship I fear. I feel like I can't handle it anymore, and I don't know what to do. I love him dearly, but it's beginning to affect me, and I don't think I can let that happen.
I'm sure there are some of you out there that have experienced something similar before, and I'm hoping that you might be able to provide some insight for me. I don't know what to do anymore.
Thanks for listening
CB
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