Good afternoon all,
During a meeting at a metal health group I belong to the subject of 'boundaries' came up; I realized I didn't really understand what the term meant in the context of relationships. I found the book "Transform Your Boundaries" by Sarri Gilman, and recently started reading it. I am starting to get an idea of what boundaries are, but still feel very unsure that I can identify them within myself.
I am still in the first few chapters, and the author is emphasizing the importance of the 'little voice inside our head' - the one, she claims, that knows what is best for us. She goes on to say that people with boundary issues have often lost touch with the voice, and that is why they have a struggle identifying what their boundaries are.
I have a hard time trusting the voice in my head. Here is a quote from my journal on the subject: "One voice says I'm making a big mistake, one says go for it... and for the life of me I can't figure out which one is the devil and which one is the angel."
I would really love to hear what everyone else has to say about their "little voice". Any and all comments and/or anecdotes would be appreciated.
Thanks,
Kaight
During a meeting at a metal health group I belong to the subject of 'boundaries' came up; I realized I didn't really understand what the term meant in the context of relationships. I found the book "Transform Your Boundaries" by Sarri Gilman, and recently started reading it. I am starting to get an idea of what boundaries are, but still feel very unsure that I can identify them within myself.
I am still in the first few chapters, and the author is emphasizing the importance of the 'little voice inside our head' - the one, she claims, that knows what is best for us. She goes on to say that people with boundary issues have often lost touch with the voice, and that is why they have a struggle identifying what their boundaries are.
I have a hard time trusting the voice in my head. Here is a quote from my journal on the subject: "One voice says I'm making a big mistake, one says go for it... and for the life of me I can't figure out which one is the devil and which one is the angel."
I would really love to hear what everyone else has to say about their "little voice". Any and all comments and/or anecdotes would be appreciated.
Thanks,
Kaight
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