I just joined and I'm here to introduce myself.
I'm 36 year old dad to two great kids, a software developer, and struggle daily with my moods. I was diagnosed with bipolar type 2. I'm barely function, my baseline mood is mild depression, and my moods fluctuate regularly. Each day is comes with dread, some days more than others. Mania is difficult to understand, as I don't feel euphoric but more agitated, frustrated, feeling as though my brain is not moving fast enough. I've only begun to understand this about me, having not existed in any other way. Depression is easier to identify, and can be severe. I've had short periods of time in my life where I felt content, but these short lived, and I often wonder what was different.
The result of all this is a life of social isolation. I escape by indulging in grandiose thoughts, or reading. I'll go through periods of heightened activity, and then periods like now where it's a challenge to muster the energy face the day. I know what to do to improve my situation (simple things like exercise, getting out more, socializing), but can't bring myself to do it. My thought patterns are like a broken record, like a loop that is hard to break. I feel guilty that I find it difficult to be thoughtful outside myself, as my thoughts are inward.
My priority is to be a good dad to my kids. And I feel for the most part I'm doing the best I can, but is it ever hard! It's hard to feign enjoyment or happiness. I feel a certain joy for my kids, their achievements, their childhood and their passions, but it's solemn, because I feel I'm not fully engaged, or able to share these moments to the level they deserve.
I don't take any medication, except clonazepam for parasomnia. I tried medication but I felt it made me worse, or had no effect. I'm only continuing with clonazepam because I'm now dependent on it, after a frightening week or so of going cold turkey. I don't take recreational drugs or alcohol.
I'm looking to find strength and perhaps offer the benefit of my own experience to others who are seeking the same.
I'm 36 year old dad to two great kids, a software developer, and struggle daily with my moods. I was diagnosed with bipolar type 2. I'm barely function, my baseline mood is mild depression, and my moods fluctuate regularly. Each day is comes with dread, some days more than others. Mania is difficult to understand, as I don't feel euphoric but more agitated, frustrated, feeling as though my brain is not moving fast enough. I've only begun to understand this about me, having not existed in any other way. Depression is easier to identify, and can be severe. I've had short periods of time in my life where I felt content, but these short lived, and I often wonder what was different.
The result of all this is a life of social isolation. I escape by indulging in grandiose thoughts, or reading. I'll go through periods of heightened activity, and then periods like now where it's a challenge to muster the energy face the day. I know what to do to improve my situation (simple things like exercise, getting out more, socializing), but can't bring myself to do it. My thought patterns are like a broken record, like a loop that is hard to break. I feel guilty that I find it difficult to be thoughtful outside myself, as my thoughts are inward.
My priority is to be a good dad to my kids. And I feel for the most part I'm doing the best I can, but is it ever hard! It's hard to feign enjoyment or happiness. I feel a certain joy for my kids, their achievements, their childhood and their passions, but it's solemn, because I feel I'm not fully engaged, or able to share these moments to the level they deserve.
I don't take any medication, except clonazepam for parasomnia. I tried medication but I felt it made me worse, or had no effect. I'm only continuing with clonazepam because I'm now dependent on it, after a frightening week or so of going cold turkey. I don't take recreational drugs or alcohol.
I'm looking to find strength and perhaps offer the benefit of my own experience to others who are seeking the same.
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