If there's something I should be happy about .. then it should be about the remarkable progress I achieved in managing my anger .. or to be more precise .. to control my rage problems ..
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On December 2003 .. I made one of the most important decisions in my life .. I decided to see a psychiatrist to seek help & advice ..
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I don't remember the exact date but I'm sure it was in December 2003 .. it was the day I received my first Effexor prescription .. and starting from that day my life changed forever .. Medication became an essential part of my life .. Maybe different types of antidepressants & mood stabilizers .. but I never stopped taking it since that date .. the only possible reason for stopping taking it would be having no cash to buy it .. or no access to it ..
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I wasn't diagnosed with bipolar disorder then .. but I kept on seeing that psychiatrist on regular basis for four years .. and the major purpose behind the therapy was to maintain better control on my rage problems & to avoid the tragic consequences & the depressive episodes following it ..
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I had three types of rage problems :
Work rage , Road rage & Home rage ..
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Work rage was the most severe one & was the one that made my life miserable .. & in the same time made me pause & reflect .. then seek help .. because it was very obvious that it was hard for me to keep a job .. I always had arguments & clashes at work ..
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Road rage was also a problem .. & of course When I say ( road rage ) I mean specifically rage while driving my car .. traffic jams & bad drivers , you know ..
I'm saying this because maybe some of you don't know so much about it .. & you don't have to deal with it ..
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Home rage was somewhat less severe but for me it was a constant hazard that I had to learn how to deal with ..
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In February 2004 I found a well paid job & managed to stay in that job for more than three years .. then I had to resign & leave it to immigrate to Canada with my wife & two sons ..
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Three years might seem to be a short period of time .. but in that specific job it was an achievement for a person like me who had a bad history & kept on losing his jobs & having clashes with colleagues & managers year after year ..
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I came here to Canada & I was very optimistic .. and I was happy to start a new life here in Ontario ..
I wasn't smart enough to realize that my x had different plans in her mind ..
She had higher expectations & obviously my progress in therapy was way below these expectations ..
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Whatever happened after that .. and no matter how bad it was .. my setbacks were not related to rage & anger anymore .. it was majorly related to severe depression , anxiety , stress & emotional breakdowns .. and my road to recovery was totally different from the road I took in 2003 .. & in 2013 I began to search & learn more about Bipolar disorder .. & I had to talk to my psychiatrist about it .. because bipolar was the answer to a lot of my questions ..
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By the way .. ( road to recovery ) is an endless road .. but I have to take it & carry on ..
I always believed that we shouldn't count so much on a ( final recovery) .. in the end I'm just getting better in knowing how to live more peacefully with my mental illness & to have more control on it ..
..
On December 2003 .. I made one of the most important decisions in my life .. I decided to see a psychiatrist to seek help & advice ..
..
I don't remember the exact date but I'm sure it was in December 2003 .. it was the day I received my first Effexor prescription .. and starting from that day my life changed forever .. Medication became an essential part of my life .. Maybe different types of antidepressants & mood stabilizers .. but I never stopped taking it since that date .. the only possible reason for stopping taking it would be having no cash to buy it .. or no access to it ..
..
I wasn't diagnosed with bipolar disorder then .. but I kept on seeing that psychiatrist on regular basis for four years .. and the major purpose behind the therapy was to maintain better control on my rage problems & to avoid the tragic consequences & the depressive episodes following it ..
..
I had three types of rage problems :
Work rage , Road rage & Home rage ..
..
Work rage was the most severe one & was the one that made my life miserable .. & in the same time made me pause & reflect .. then seek help .. because it was very obvious that it was hard for me to keep a job .. I always had arguments & clashes at work ..
..
Road rage was also a problem .. & of course When I say ( road rage ) I mean specifically rage while driving my car .. traffic jams & bad drivers , you know ..
I'm saying this because maybe some of you don't know so much about it .. & you don't have to deal with it ..
..
Home rage was somewhat less severe but for me it was a constant hazard that I had to learn how to deal with ..
..
In February 2004 I found a well paid job & managed to stay in that job for more than three years .. then I had to resign & leave it to immigrate to Canada with my wife & two sons ..
..
Three years might seem to be a short period of time .. but in that specific job it was an achievement for a person like me who had a bad history & kept on losing his jobs & having clashes with colleagues & managers year after year ..
..
I came here to Canada & I was very optimistic .. and I was happy to start a new life here in Ontario ..
I wasn't smart enough to realize that my x had different plans in her mind ..
She had higher expectations & obviously my progress in therapy was way below these expectations ..
..
Whatever happened after that .. and no matter how bad it was .. my setbacks were not related to rage & anger anymore .. it was majorly related to severe depression , anxiety , stress & emotional breakdowns .. and my road to recovery was totally different from the road I took in 2003 .. & in 2013 I began to search & learn more about Bipolar disorder .. & I had to talk to my psychiatrist about it .. because bipolar was the answer to a lot of my questions ..
..
By the way .. ( road to recovery ) is an endless road .. but I have to take it & carry on ..
I always believed that we shouldn't count so much on a ( final recovery) .. in the end I'm just getting better in knowing how to live more peacefully with my mental illness & to have more control on it ..
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