hi it's been awhile. Had to make a hard decision but with my physical health declining quickly and of course mental health well. Now bear with me for this long and various parts as I try to summarize. I have a bit of pain brain fog as usual too much rain and the high humidity and it's cooler
As many of you know my lack of healthy interpersonal relations is part of my diagnosis too but (and this was very supported by my pdoc) and I no longer and will never have contact with ny of my family which includes my daughter (she's as manipulative as my parents and plus they pay for her house etc and give her money) she doesn't work. My partner heard my conversations on the phone with them via speaker phone, need witness that I'm not imagining what they say as they always always would say I never said that..... My parents big thing when I finally dated after 12 yrs after the divorce and right away found my soul mate (finally something positive wow), it's incredible that I don't have to be on egg shells. Yes I hurt all the time about my daughter but I started losing her about 5 years ago (parents would buy her stuff and say shhh don't tell your mother). It's hard because what I endured to keep her safe during the violent marriage to deflect his attention from her, always at home for her, thinking she loved me all along but
Before any of you say my offspring et al l will come back etc not with this bunch, they were peeved that "well you were suppose to look after us as we got older" yes I was a wallet even though they have millions. Yes my own father took my house and my retirement savings I signed over after my breakdown.
physical health my spine has many arthritic along with curves, curved vertebrates, compress fracture etc a lot in L5 and S1, pancreas tail is atrophy (don't drink), kidneys are both under 10cm and my heart beats too fast but blood pressure is low there's more. I hate this lack of mobility god I so do, started with a can but with arthritis in elbows hands really bad knees I'm now using a walker until I don't know what's next. I'm 49.
well as usual in fed gov't my ass they are advocate mental and physical accommodation. Even though I do work strictly on a computer and only deal with our supervisor who deals with the clients, they want a body there. I cannot sit nor stand more than 10 mins at a time.
God I'm long winded. I decided on medical retirement (I had 9 more years for full pension) it won't be much but I'll keep my drug plan (my monthly co payment will be over 60 dollars a month but it gives me the name brand stuff.
I can only hope that health canada approves sooner than later, my nerves and always thinking the worse. I had my pdoc fill out the forms since mental health is the most serious in terms of staying alive. I have to focus on all the doctor appointments, pool exercises etc these are all things that are during working hours and I find I can't stretch myself like I use to.
I'm at peace with it and looking forward not rushing and one less aspect of major stress on my life. I believe I will start sewing again I will be busy enough.
oh and I was invited for a study at the Royal hospital for major depressives.
Mostly I just want to be able to do one thing at a time and well and be there for my partner.
As many of you know my lack of healthy interpersonal relations is part of my diagnosis too but (and this was very supported by my pdoc) and I no longer and will never have contact with ny of my family which includes my daughter (she's as manipulative as my parents and plus they pay for her house etc and give her money) she doesn't work. My partner heard my conversations on the phone with them via speaker phone, need witness that I'm not imagining what they say as they always always would say I never said that..... My parents big thing when I finally dated after 12 yrs after the divorce and right away found my soul mate (finally something positive wow), it's incredible that I don't have to be on egg shells. Yes I hurt all the time about my daughter but I started losing her about 5 years ago (parents would buy her stuff and say shhh don't tell your mother). It's hard because what I endured to keep her safe during the violent marriage to deflect his attention from her, always at home for her, thinking she loved me all along but
Before any of you say my offspring et al l will come back etc not with this bunch, they were peeved that "well you were suppose to look after us as we got older" yes I was a wallet even though they have millions. Yes my own father took my house and my retirement savings I signed over after my breakdown.
physical health my spine has many arthritic along with curves, curved vertebrates, compress fracture etc a lot in L5 and S1, pancreas tail is atrophy (don't drink), kidneys are both under 10cm and my heart beats too fast but blood pressure is low there's more. I hate this lack of mobility god I so do, started with a can but with arthritis in elbows hands really bad knees I'm now using a walker until I don't know what's next. I'm 49.
well as usual in fed gov't my ass they are advocate mental and physical accommodation. Even though I do work strictly on a computer and only deal with our supervisor who deals with the clients, they want a body there. I cannot sit nor stand more than 10 mins at a time.
God I'm long winded. I decided on medical retirement (I had 9 more years for full pension) it won't be much but I'll keep my drug plan (my monthly co payment will be over 60 dollars a month but it gives me the name brand stuff.
I can only hope that health canada approves sooner than later, my nerves and always thinking the worse. I had my pdoc fill out the forms since mental health is the most serious in terms of staying alive. I have to focus on all the doctor appointments, pool exercises etc these are all things that are during working hours and I find I can't stretch myself like I use to.
I'm at peace with it and looking forward not rushing and one less aspect of major stress on my life. I believe I will start sewing again I will be busy enough.
oh and I was invited for a study at the Royal hospital for major depressives.
Mostly I just want to be able to do one thing at a time and well and be there for my partner.
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