Building Bridges 2 – A Pathway to Cultural Safety, Relational Practice and Social Inclusion

Schedule E

Summary Notes
Cultural Safety Symposium
March 24 & 25, 2010

Ottawa, Ontario

Day One

Dr. Ed provided some opening remarks about life, work, bringing our gifts into the world, and seeing and welcoming the gifts of people who are marginalized. The purpose of life is to eliminate the language of disabilities and to create a world where no one is labeled or takes their identity from their disabilities, only from their gifts: “I am not what I am not able to do; I am what I am able to do – my gifts and my strengths.” When we look at deficiencies; that is what we get. When we look at people’s gifts and capabilities; that is what we get.

He explained that the smudge is offered as a way of giving thanks to the Creator, however we understand that Higher Power, and with respect for all the ways we relate to the Higher Power. We are using the smoke from the sage to cleanse ourselves of all the things disruptive to our purpose here today, so we can use all the gifts the Creator has given us to do what we have come to do this day.

Ed invited Chris Summerville to offer a prayer as well.

Richard Chenier: Welcome everyone! It has been an exciting and challenging year with this pioneer initiative. In our review of the literature, we have not been able to see any other examples of such an initiative elsewhere in the world. It has come about through the partnership between Bill and Phil, two mental health leaders in Canada today.

Phil: It is fantastic to be among friends to share what we can share, provide guidance, and walk away tomorrow with hope in our hearts. It’s a privilege to be able to partner with NMHAC and FNIHIB whose support has allowed us to develop this process in a way that we felt it needed to be developed. Too often, the structures of government prevent this kind of learning as we go on. We have come to different ways of learning, understanding and engaging over the last three years of Building Bridges. I would like to acknowledge the presence of the Directors of the MDSC– Bill Ashdown, Chris Summerville, Bill Mussell and Vicki Smye. Two others were not able to make it here. Both MDSC and NMHAC have wonderful boards that are very strong and supportive. Thank you, Ed for helping refocus us in a way that supports the work.

Bill: On behalf of the Board of NMHAC, welcome everyone. Our Association has been addressing much the same issues as the MDSC, and working very productively with it and FHINIB. I am pleased to se representatives from ITK and AFN. I am confident we can continue the good work that has been accomplished since Building Bridges started.

Richard provided an overview of the agenda. He explained that Bev and Terry are taking notes because every word is important to us. We will view “Glimpses of Light” and Vicki will talk about the linkages between cultural safety and relational practice, followed by a plenary discussion with Bill. Day two will consist of small group discussions and reports to the plenary.

Howard Chodos: My job with the MHCC is to develop a MH strategy for Canada. I am pleased and honored to be here today. We are striving to incorporate the learnings from this and other initiatives into the work of the Commission. Hoping to learn more over the next few days, to help us all move forward in a common direction.

Winona Ryder-Lahache: I work in MH & Addictions for the AFN. I am from Long Point FN, a community of about 400 to 450 people, about 7 hours north of Ottawa. My expectations are to learn a lot more from everyone at this event. AFN is looking at establishing a MH & Addictions Advisory Committee to advise on the national work of the AFN. I am interested in having conversations about what is happening re: cultural safety that would help to inform this work.

Diane Williams: I am a Supervisor of Mental Health and Addictions in a FN (population 2900) in New Brunswick, north of Moncton. In New Brunswick, we have a project for adapting mainstream MH services to better serve FN needs. Our New Brunswick MH strategy is presently being rewritten.

Lorna Williams: I work at University of Victoria. My expectations are to listen and learn. These meetings are challenging because of the work everyone is doing, but enlightening and empowering because of the courage people have in trying to break open the doors that have been closed to so many people.

Farah Millany: I am part of the MHCC strategy team, working on goal three, incorporating diversities and strengths into a transformed mental health system. I serve as liaison with the FNIM Advisory Committee of the Commission. I am looking forward to learning a lot about how best to incorporate cultural safety into the implementation of the Strategy.

Jennifer White: I am at the University of Victoria, and a member of FNIM Advisory Committee. I have a long-standing interest in child and youth mental health and in youth suicide prevention. Expectations for today are to listen and learn. These gatherings are always the beginning of how to practice in a culturally safe and relational way; it is important to practice the process.

Brenda Restoule: I am a Psychologist at an Aboriginal Health Access Centre in Sudbury for two FN communities. I am from Doukees FN, five hours from Ottawa, and serve as a Board member of NMHAC. I am working with FNIHB to develop a pilot project to provide services to 10 communities, using a blend of traditional and western practices. Richard and Bev came to the Sudbury Health Access Centre to conduct a focus group. I sit at a service provider meeting in the Sudbury area and advocate for the incorporation of cultural safety. Sudbury recently built a medicine lodge in the new hospital. The danger is that they think they have cultural safety because they have a new medicine lodge. There is often a real divide between community workers and the professionals supposed to work with the communities, in that the professionals do not acknowledge the knowledge of the lay workers. Cultural safety training has to take place with these service providers.

Eric Costen: I am Director of MH & Addictions at FNIHIB. Thanks for the invitation and to Phil and Bill for their generous acknowledgment of FNHIB for our small support. I was not able to be at the first BB because I was on parental leave. I work on the “inside” with a group sincerely interested in making federal policy processes more culturally safe.

Vicki Smye: I teach at the University of BC. I am here to learn; I am on a steep learning curve about cultural safety and relational practice, learning a lot from students who are very curious and always asking questions. I am involved in several projects related to the subject of cultural safety. I am very grateful for what I do and for being here today. Very much looking forward to the dialogue.

Ella Amir: I am from Quebec and serve as Chair of Family Caregivers Advisory Committee of the Commission. BB1 was one of the better conferences I have been to. I feel privileged to be here and hope this will bring us one step closer to recognizing cultural safety and inclusion are universal issues not unique to aboriginals.

Bill Ashdown: MDSC Board member, very interested in the topic because I have seen it come up repeatedly in my work across the world – e.g. at a major psychiatric conference in South Africa; a conference in Jerusalem; about to be on the agenda of an upcoming meeting in Chicago. This is a topic whose time has come, around the world. You have caught a tiger by the tail in terms of the topic.

Mona Stout: I am with the Mood Disorders Association of Manitoba, working hard at eliminating stigma and preventing suicide by putting on events, fairs in small communities, etc. Some of these touched people with the need to talk about their suicide challenges. I have also been working with a northern FN community, Oxford House, which has accepted me. I do not want to give them false hope, not promise what I cannot give to this community and others like it. I am hoping to gain knowledge through this process that could give me more information and resources to help in working with the northern communities and people in Winnipeg.

Chris Summerville: I have been the Director of Schizophrenia Society in Manitoba for 15 years, and serve as a Board member for the MH Commission. I feel a great responsibility to speak for those whose voices are often not heard. The most pressing issue in Canada is not mental health, but how the whole of Canada does not have a good relationship with indigenous people. Vicki’s paper connects cultural safety to social justice. The correlation between the MH movement and indigenous issues is one of social justice and if cultural safety can help us to address social injustices that would be wonderful.

Gary Carbonnell: I am Mohawk from the community of Oka, representing the National Native Addictions Partnership Foundation. Mental health and addictions are brothers and sisters. I have already learned so much but have much more to learn and it’s an absolute honour to be here with the brain power in the room.

Gwen Watts: From Labrador, Director of MH & Addictions for the Department of Social Health and Welfare for the Inutsiuk government, and a member of FNIM Advisory Committee. Cultural safety and relational practice fit daily into my work, from policy to putting out fires on the ground in the community. So many questions have been coming up for me lately. We have partnered in a Social Work training program with the University so people do not have to leave Labrador for training. The challenge is how to make things safe, so people can feel empowered in this kind of situation, working in models of status quo. I am excited to be here.

Patricia Wiebe: Psychiatrist working in an advisory capacity with FNIHB. Thanks to Chris and Ed. We are in the early stages with AFN and Tapirisat of exploring what cultural safety means. We are also looking at how cultural safety fits within FNIHIB. Heartened to see this work continue and move forward. I see what you are doing in this process is to give voice to those whose voice has been excluded and to move towards reconciliation of Canada’s peoples.

Tina Holland: Board member of MDSC of Manitoba. I have been living with bipolar disorder for over 40 years. My passion is to help people learn how to live a successful life with any mental illness. I speak in any group that will invite me. I help people learn how to take the next steps in their life and recovery. Here to learn and further my passion.

Norman D’Aragon: Psychologist from Quebec, board member of NMHAC and member of FNIM Advisory Committee. I was given a spiritual name recently; my Clan is the Bear Clan; name means Fire Lit by Thunder. One of my ways to celebrate this in my life is I had a close encounter with a polar bear. Very happy and honored to be part of the circle. I was at BB1. I stayed on the shore on the FN side, wasn’t on the bridge. My goal would be to more open, more connecting with everyone, not staying on the shore. I feel a bit more and more like a bridge myself with all the realities I connect with.

Caroline Tait: Professor of Native Studies, University of Saskatchewan and member of FNIM Advisory Committee. I am the lead of the FNIM AC project on ethics and accountability. Recently, I received tenure, which means it is more difficult to fire me (a classic Métis response!). I am exploring links to our work in Saskatchewan in terms of the broader philosophical lessons, and to the practice on the ground for people. The challenge is to bridge these, and take them backwards and forwards, to link research to practice on the ground. The metaphor of the bridge is wonderful and I’m optimistic.

Terry Adler – Member of FNIM Advisory Committee. Thanks to Ed and Chris for starting our gathering in a way that reminds us of our connectedness to each other and all things. Thanks Bill and Phil and those who organized the agenda, for “walking the talk” of cultural safety by recognizing that everyone has lived experience and for providing an opportunity for us to share and learn from one another’s experiences. My expectation is that through the process, we can better understand what is meant by the words cultural safety and relational practice and how they link to social justice.

Bob Allen: Board member NMHAC, a background as a Psychiatric Nurse I Saskatchewan, and a lengthy career in Correctional Services. Sometimes in my work, there were challenging times, instances where it was overwhelming to meet the challenges of the work. It felt like I was riding the crest of a wave that sometimes felt like a tsunami. It feels like a wave again re: the whole issue of cultural safety. In Saskatchewan, we are looking at an initiative of patient-centered care, called Patients First. We are concerned about the cultural safety and cultural competence of systems, and how cultural safety applies more broadly to everyone. My expectation for being here is to learn from everyone.

Josephine Muxlow: I work with FNIHB in the Atlantic Region. I am honored to be here. I had the privilege of being part of BB1 and am delighted to be part of BB2 and contribute whatever I can. The topic of cultural safety is very important to my colleagues. It is important to see what cultural safety means to the communities from the systems perspective. It’s important to flush out the concepts and what they mean to communities, organizations like FNIHB and how cultural safety can be applied in concrete ways.

Bill Mussell: We are each shaped by the forces in our lives, and I am grateful to have good ancestors and friends shaping my life. Went to high school with only a few Aboriginal students; graduated university and became Executive Director of native friendship centre. Community is so important. I taught at university part-time but wouldn’t do it full-time because there is no community there. I joined the Native Indian Brotherhood and found we had a community. Communities are significant in my life and conform to the values of the collective, the team, the network, the society, the nation. We have a real need for community. We have created a wonderful community in the FNIM AC, same with the MDSC. We have made good friendships with members of the Commission, but it is not a community. I’m really pleased we are here to share our lived experience and learn from one another.

Phil: I come from the Western model. An important aspect of recovering from bi-polar was to be part of a peer support group, a safe place to be. I was able to drop some of the facades that you carry for your own protection. I had started to heal. When I started to think about CS and relational practice, I realized peer support was all relational, a place where we could recover our identity and relationships, feel safe and comfortable. I love the process we have embarked on in BB. There is so much honesty, commonality in our relationship and leadership. I want to take away some guidance from this group about how you see things. You can give us a hand in moving forward with our next steps because there is a richness of knowledge and experience in this room.

Ed Connors: I am of Mohawk Irish ancestry, of the Wolf Clan, my name is Eastern Thunderbirds Sounding as They Come. I have worked as a psychologist in FN communities for close to 30 years. I have seen it as another form of training in a world and a perspective about life, our relationship with self and all creation that was different from the one I had been immersed in during formal training. So I sought Elders as my teachers, to understand their perspectives on the world. As I’ve done that, learned and continued to reflect on that, I have come to understand that there is a whole world of indigenous knowledge, wisdom and perspective on healing that has informed my work with FN communities. I’ve been connected with NMHAC almost from its inception; and many other opportunities have evolved from this, including working with the Family Caregivers Committee of the Commission and other work. This is so worthwhile; it’s all tied together, the cultural safety I have been doing for many years. What we are now doing is putting language, words to it, thus informing indigegogy. There is no better place for me to be in my life than here, because we are forming crucial understandings of mental health that are needed globally. I’m going to be speaking about these concepts, so others can understand what we mean by them. What we are unfolding here is seminal work in the evolution of all forms of mental wellness in the world.

Beverley Bourget: Thanks to Bill, I’m a member of the Commission’s MH & the Workforce Advisory Committee and the lead on the Improving MH in the Workplace project. Thanks to Bill, Phil, Richard and the funders, I had the honor to co-facilitate the Eastern Canada focus groups and to develop the report, which I truly hope reflects the voices of the participants who trusted us enough to open their hearts and share their often difficult but also inspiring stories. In those groups, the themes of cultural safety, relational practice and social justice came through loud and clear, and I’m really looking forward to further exploring these topics over the next couple of days with such a diverse group.

Dave Gallson:I am from North Bay Ontario. I am very interested in and feel very strongly about these subjects. They are something I would like to do more work on. Over the last few years, I have developed relationships with new Canadians and see how applicable this is to their lives. I am here to learn and grow over the next couple of days.

Richard reviewed progress to date, saying that Building Bridges Phase One ended in October 2007 and produced 17 recommendations. To put meat on the bones of those recommendations, it was decided to explore the themes of cultural safety and relational practice in the context of the five priority goals of the Mental Wellness Advisory Committee. Resources have been shared with the FNIM Advisory Committee, which made cultural safety one of its priority projects.
Richard provided an overview of the overarching objectives of Building Bridges Phase Two (see Richard’s PPT for these). This current phase included 41 focus groups and consultations across every region of Canada, along with commissioned research papers. The final report will be produced in May 2010. Grateful thanks to FNIHIB, without whose support this initiative could not have been accomplished.

“Glimpses of Light” Video – introduced by Bill Mussell.

A powerful and compelling DVD that has already been tested in Canada to stimulate discussion on strategic issues related to cultural safety and relational practice in Canada.

Vicki: Richard invited me to have a conversation with you on relational practice and cultural safety. I hope you had a look at the overview of the literature review of cultural safety circulated previously. I hope this conversation feeds into the CS and cultural competency report due out shortly. CS is not a panacea; it’s a concept to help us think about and frame things and move to a place of working relationally in this country. I want to underline that relational practice is not simply about the inter-personal relationship, being nice and kind, caring and compassionate. It’s about understanding ourselves and the care we provide in relationship to the contextual features of our lives, including where we live, how connected or disconnected we are from our past and how we are all deeply connected in many ways.

I’m learning so much from my brother as he transitions out of this world. I was with him a short while ago. He is a man of few words. I shaved his face. And you have to know my brother to know what this means to him, so this is relational. He is diminished only in his physicality. He looked up to me and said to me, good bye sis and I told him I would be back on the weekend and he looked up and said “I want to thank you so much and it’s not just about the physical care. You know what I mean.” We know each other; we understand where we came from, why we are where we are. We don’t even have to say one word. Language is so narrow – how do I write a paper, the CS report and embed that in it? When I speak relationally I am speaking not just about being nice. How do I convey to the practitioner that there is that reality to everyone? Relational practice calls for vulnerability. That is our challenge, because many people are afraid of being vulnerable. I was taught in a tradition of keeping boundaries very clear, of being careful, not sharing. I would say to you that we have to learn how to shift practice to say it’s OK to know and to be known. And we can be safe in that.

Bill: You remind me that 90% of communication is non-verbal, while the academic world is based in the verbal.

Caroline: The relational piece – I was talking to someone about indigenous rights in an international context. In this country, the relational piece is about land and it continues to be about land. The perception was that the land was empty when European’s arrived, and the colonizers had the right to take the land. That tells us about power. Along with the taking of the land came the loss of fishing and hunting rights, which were restricted. So, my dad (Métis) had to sneak around with his hunting, and we were told not to tell the other kids at school about it. Those relationships over generations and generations are fundamental relationships. CS for me starts with that acknowledgement, that there were people here before Europeans arrived and Europeans were successful in dismantling the indigenous relationship with the land. That has huge implications for indigenous people. I think of how that must have been for my father, to have his children see him breaking the law. But that was the relationship. And the video, the relationship of the patient to the caregiver, this brings me back to the importance of the land. We children were watching my dad break the law, but he was doing what has been done for generations and generations.

Bill A: When I was reading the material for the conference, I could see a connection with the Ethiopian Jews who now live in Israel who have their own particular challenges because of the nature of the MH problems they live with – one form of mental illness that is culturally generated, and very different from anything you would see in the DSMIV. They were trying to teach the Israeli health system providers how to deal with the illness of the Fallasha. So much of their teachings revolve around not just cultural knowledge, but the ability to treat people with these illnesses in a way that is safe and acceptable and understandable to them. Before they could understand what the Doctors were trying to do for them they had to see it through the lens of their own cultural understandings, then it clicked into place for them. This to me exemplifies CS. South Africa has 11 cultural groups to deal with and nobody understands anybody. 90% of the time people don’t want to be treated because they don’t understand both parts of the equation, it doesn’t fit them.

CS for me is what people express is culturally safe for them. There are so many people, immigrants coming here with PTSD – we need to empower them to tell us how they need to be treated. This is primary to CS.

Chris: When I had a mild heart attack 9 months ago, the doctor that was treating me told me – no computers, no blackberry – and as he left I said, would you pray for me? And he said yes and walked off. We both attend the same church and I could not understand why he didn’t just come over and say a few words at the time. This is a classic example of relational practice.

I went to the psych hospital in Winnipeg to visit a young man psychiatrists wanted to diagnose with schizophrenia. He said “I don’t have schizophrenia”. He wrote 15 pages of why he was in the situation he was in, and gave them to me to read. He knew what was wrong with him– loss of his mother, loss of his girlfriend, ongoing tensions with his dad – very articulate – making his case how he was going to appeal the diagnosis, but told me that no one would read his paper. So I got him a meeting with the psychiatrist and asked him if he thought the paper had anything to do with why he was there. No one had read it – and he had been there 21 days. When you entered the psych ward, there was no relationship there, no privacy, a very disempowering place. I love that you are defining CS as relational practice and it fits in very well with what we know of recovery.

Vicki: There is a brand new facility for women with substance use issues in the West and my colleagues won’t allow students there yet because the nurses spend all their time in the nursing station behind a door. My colleague was just floored by that. To me, that is so tragic, but the good part is that Vancouver Coastal Health has been trying to make some changes and have invited us in, but there is some fear on the part of the nurses. So, how do we bring CS and live relationally in a way that invites a different way of being? Even the door, the top opens and the bottom stays closed and that’s how they give out meds. I thought we got rid of that, but there it still is. I think there is a great deal of fear of connecting because we have to face our own vulnerability. I think fear is part of the challenge and that prevents people from connecting and creating the join.

Josephine: It goes deeper than that. I think it is important for the people involved to understand their fears, their values and how they see the other person as a person – in order to have a relationship I have to empty myself and come with no preconceived notions so I can truly see the person and their gifts. We can look at this in different ways too – there is the person-to-person interaction but there is also the systemic issue. How do we make that cognitive shift to understand the power dynamics and inequities that are in place? How can we make this happen with the providers, because my own fears block me from engaging you? We really have to also look at the big picture, the systemic barriers – how do we start breaking these pieces down? Sometimes we connect through language, but sometimes the connection happens without language. So how can we transform this dialogue that we are having into the everyday work place?

Phil: If you want to know how to control a situation without words, talk to my deceased mom – she knew what I was doing without language – that was relational. But I go back to community and we need to offer something pretty substantial to make the changes that need to happen in health care delivery. When I was growing up, we had a real sense of community – the Minister knew you; the doctor would visit and spend time without concern for the length of visit, everyone went to the same church, the teachers knew the whole community and would come to the house and talk to my parents – there was that opportunity to build relationships and for people to know me as an individual. As I grew older, I noticed withdrawal of public service, away from house calls and a business model imposed. Then, all of the sudden in the community, the corner store was gone and the big malls came in and then they built a monster high school, very different from the small high school my sister went to, where everyone knew everyone. We have to get back to being small and recognize that time is not a commodity.

These are critical in moving away from the medical model. Today, even in high school, we are training kids to get jobs, not for their minds to grow and think, and be independent. We have to start examining these kinds of relationships to get the advice we need move forward from this symposium. We have to think small and that time is not a commodity. We have to move away from the medical model and the western model we now have.

Terry: What are we doing in the hospital settings? We put people in with nurses hiding behind nurses’ stations or half doors, but I know there are other models, other strategies. What sense does it make to isolate people instead of reaching out and helping them to feel safe? I really feel the need to understand where the medical model came from, this paradigm that is gripping our societal health systems and impacts on the care we see. Is the Commission really going to be able to challenge this paradigm? There are many different cultural understandings of mental imbalances. In some cultures, they surround people with the extended family circle, and use rituals to bring them back into balance. There is a drive to export the western way of dealing with MI which is fueled by the pharmaceutical industry that wants to medicalize MH issues to create other markets they can tap into. This is the fundamental challenge that needs to be addressed. Even if the model isn’t completely thrown out, there are other options – aboriginal or consumer led ways of responding to the person’s situation that begin with accepting the person wherever they are and whoever they are, with no judgment, and helping them create the supports they need so they are not alone in their journey. These include helping people get what they need to stabilize their lives, like housing. I really need to understand the western paradigm, so I know why they would put a mentally imbalanced person in a locked ward with other mentally imbalanced people and nurses behind a closed door.

Patricia – Wanted to pick up on the comment on vulnerability and what it will take for these relationships to change. ITK is starting to explore what CS would mean for FHIB and its staff. For cultural safety, we tend to focus on those who have had less power. Yet both sides need to feel safe. What would that look like? Cultural safety is a power relationship; the risk is that there is a loss of power. If you look at the relational aspect of CS, both sides need to feel safe – so what does it mean for health care providers to feel safe as well? One of the risks/vulnerabilities of CS is that it involves a loss of power. And we all have personal histories that we bring to our work, as does our organization (have a history) and this influences how we do our work and how we perceive each other. These are some challenges that have to be addressed.

Diane: I’m the pragmatic person – the other definition of relational practice has to do with feminist theory – a simple example – my staff, working with kids not going to school, came to me and said we have a problem with lice and asked can we hire someone to clean the houses? I told them these are moms on welfare with 5-6 kids; what if, instead of hiring someone, we get a basket of supplies to allow them to clean themselves, and bring some people in to help them. And that’s when the mom’s started doing better and the kids started going to school. It was about giving the mom’s what they needed. I think if we spent more time with people in the beginning, we could help to prevent a lot of mental illness from developing further. We have sufficient resources; all we need to do is talk to people. We would get further along with mental wellness if we could just talk to people more. Our systems do not allow for time. I am all for accountability, but the more accountable I am the less time I have.

Ella: What Diane is talking about is what I wanted to talk about but I think it’s more about respect than about time. You cannot have relations without respect. This is the most fundamental element. If we don’t have it inherent in ourselves we can’t have any real relations. This forum is looking at MI and about colonization with specific communities, but I think it has a universal resonance and applies to anyone who is marginalized for any reason. We need to have respect for otherness – so with very little time, if we have that, we could make a difference. Plus, we aren’t really talking about anything new – we know about this and have known for a long time, but lost it along the way. It’s not reflected in our training – we are building intellectual capacity but the onus is on everyone, not just the Commission, to make changes. There are pockets of practice, doing the right things and we need to replicate those.

Howard: Back to Terry’s question about what the Commission could accomplish. On most days I feel overwhelmed by the magnitude of what the commission has undertaken. If we have to move time backwards to the kinds of community relationships we used to have, it’s not going to happen. We can’t push time backwards, but we can take lessons from those. We also need to understand and respect the younger generation and their realities. Our collective task within the commission is to make change pragmatically, to make a difference and this requires attention to what is going to work in the world today. Somehow we need to be able to translate what comes from conversations like this one into change. And that’s a big task and it relates to the vulnerabilities and fears people were talking about – one thing the commission might be able to do is act as a catalyst for conversations about these things – open up a space for that – we can’t ride in with a lance and destroy the medical model and I’m not sure I would want to do that. But opening a space for this kind of dialogue – making sure that there is not one model that dominates and understanding from people around the country what works and what doesn’t work, respecting people’s choices, the pluralities of those choices, including people for whom medication or the medical model works. The opening up of spaces for many choices for people is critical. When I was writing the Out of the Shadows report I had a conversation with Connie McKnight about it and basically it’s about respecting people’s choices.

Bill A: The idea of CS has a few different aspects to it. My wife has been a geriatric nurse for over 37 years. With some dismay and disgust, she is thinking of retiring because in her opinion, nurses have become more bureaucrats, form fillers, technicians, rather than being with people and giving them support. This has been a change of culture that highlights a larger issue – we as a society have been allowing a lot of these things to happen – we are focusing on technology over empathy. The commission can’t change this overnight but it’s a message that needs to go to them, and that they can then take to others – medical schools, nursing schools – so they can adopt a more holistic, rather than a technical approach. Otherwise, we are sub-dividing ourselves into smaller and smaller tribes, none of whom will be able to speak to each other.

Gary: Are we here not part and parcel of the problem? I’m a layperson but how many times have I told my kids to “get out of here”. This creates a system of low self-esteem that snowballs. When I was 9 years old, if someone was building a house, everyone would come and help. And I had to help by shoveling sand in the cement mixer. I had an axe I could shave with when I was 7 years old. I wouldn’t trust my older kids with such a thing. As parents, we are not allowing our children to experience these things. We are here dealing with the symptoms of a problem, but who is looking after the things that create these mental issues? We’re a small group, trying to change the world, but on the other side of the fence it’s a lot bigger, it’s going to get more and more. We are going to get more and more mental unwellness with the growing changes in the world. We have a baby here – that’s culturally appropriate to have our kids at meetings – it doesn’t bother us but it would never happen in a non-aboriginal context. I’m wondering if we collectively, aren’t part and parcel of some of the problems. Everything everyone is saying makes sense, but are we missing the boat? What is causing these symptoms? One last thing, for a FN person, we sit and speak as long as everyone is comfortable, but we have people who want to push us out. So we are trying to deal with CS and can’t even exercise it in our own forum.

Ed: I agree – we’re talking about CS. In our teachings, we would continue until we were done, until we had completed what we came here to do. Here we are competing with the clock that says otherwise to CS.

Norman: Recently I was giving a suicide prevention workshop and in the Cree community with 30 non-Cree and 3 Cree teachers. The Cree teachers had a load of grief and trauma to share but the non-Cree teachers were not open to this at all– they asked if we were trying to get them into a therapy session. So we had to have circles in the evenings to honor the need for sharing on the Cree side. In another example in the far north, the opposite thing happened. Most of the people were Inuit from families who were relocated and very wounded. The Inuit people did magical healing in that situation. The Inuit healers would go to the non-Inuit professionals that were there who were able to talk about their own sufferings for maybe the first time in their lives.

Winona: There are several different lenses by which to view relational practice and it’s difficult to look at it through each of the different slices of these lenses because it’s such a large and encompassing topic. I wanted to talk about time and something that Howard was talking about, about adaptation. We as people evolve so the way things have been done in the past – how do we stay true to that and modernize it? Time is a big thing I hear about at a lot of gatherings I have gone to. There is the whole notion of Indian time and that’s something that people sometimes use as an excuse for being late. That’s not what it was about. Traditionally, time has been viewed differently; it was about dedication and commitment, taking time out of your life to get the job done. If everyone was comfortable doing that and the environment allowed it that is what you did. If you are meeting and there is a thunderstorm, you “lower the council fires” and go home to take care of things, but don’t lose the commitment. Looking at it in the context we’re in with the fire chiefs waiting to use this room, you keep the commitment to come back and deal with what was left – we call that lowering the fire. We need to keep the things that are valuable, but within the current context. And there are many layers. At a systemic level there are different things that need to be addressed and have an impact on relational practice, and one is difference in worldviews. Part of what has to be taken into consideration is looking at the commonalities in worldviews. I think Brenda is going to be engaging in this on a very functional level, so that will be really interesting.

Vicki: “Finding the join” is what is required in relational practice. We can come back to this conversation; I would love to hear your ideas because I would love to write a report about your thoughts, challenges of relational practice and examples of good relational practice.

Ed: One thought I would like to throw out for us to consider in relational practice and healing – it’s a major component of recovery because we have to understand recovery in the context of relationship. But we also need to be looking at experiences that have already occurred that are good examples of relational practice. We have some powerful mental health models, in our country and others that have been proven to be very effective. One of these is Browndale. John Brown was an innovator, way ahead of his time in terms of his contributions to child and youth mental health. He established his work in other countries and was recognized by the Queen for his contributions. We need to look at these examples, in terms of what these are all about.

Day Two

Bill: I would like to share the experiences Terry and I had doing the Western Canada focus groups as they are relevant to the discussion we are having today. We had 27 groups in Saskatoon, Winnipeg, Iqaluit, Yellowknife, and Whitehorse with 5-6 meetings in each centre. We learned a great deal through the sessions about relational practice as it takes place in everyday life. This represents more than just CS; it is in the doing that helps us to experience what it is, like tacit knowledge, it is impossible to tell it like it is in words. Remember the natural flow of the water in the DVD as Denise was speaking about her experience with the Elder.

We spent time with mental health and addictions service providers, consumers/constituents (a concept introduced in Winnipeg) and individuals willing to share their experiences. They shared with us what is important to know, from their perspective. We used the talking circle format. These are some examples of what seems to work to make a positive difference for MH & Addictions consumers.

In Winnipeg, there is a Wellness Centre, a multi-purpose community wellness center offering counseling, work, and education opportunities. They’ve created a community within a community where people can see evidence of who they are wherever they look and all of their activities are built on the core values of the people.

In Iqaluit there is a friendship centre, a home away from home for the homeless where they offer food from the land brought in each day by hunters. There is no prying by anyone. Two older host/staff/counselors are available. It’s a warm space to spend time to begin building community for yourself. People are welcome to help themselves to the food from the land available on the floor, and a bowl of fry bread. It is a unique experience to go through the door. Like other centers that make a difference, there are no government funds; it’s all funded by the Aboriginal Healing Foundation.

In Yellowknife, there is a Women’s Retreat Centre where the staff members are grads of the healing program, not people with graduate degrees, but with lived experience who know what it takes to provide on going support to people. The staff takes real pride in the continuity of their services. They have an unfailing belief in the ability of people to modify themselves that is conveyed nonverbally as they interact. This is not government funded. Government funded agencies resent the existence of this centre and I believe it’s because it does such good work. The director and staff are working very hard to beg and borrow to get grants to keep the centre going. At this focus group, I began to appreciate that the life of homeless people in that part of the country resembles traditional survival, the key to which is mutual support.

In Saskatoon, the White Buffalo Youth Lodge is a centre that serves youth. They engage newcomers into activities, not creating a file of their problems, no personal profiles; they just take names and contact information for emergencies. It costs $350-400,000 a year to run this centre with no direct government funding. The director raises the money through grants and other means, although they do have indirect government funding for two classrooms for youth and two teachers work there full-time. They offer legal services through an arrangement with the law school and provide space for dental and medical services. They’ve done this so young people can, in addition to receiving the services, think about professional careers. My fear was, once this director leaves, where will they find someone with the motivation and skill to accomplish what she has? A government department has hired her so she is leaving in three months.

In Yellowknife we met a correctional worker who described the work that he does in a Federal prison, which is very effective not because he has a degree, but because he is steeped in his culture through the teachings he received from his father and grandfather. He provides ongoing support to the men in the system, to help them find out who and what they are from a cultural perspective. This helps them to become self-caring, and encourages them to work with others as he works with them. When people with lived life experience get the help they need and become relatively healthy, they are able to assist others like them and have an ongoing commitment to their development. Also in Yellowknife, a FN is doing a variety of things, including a return to the land program that included some of the people considered to be homeless. When they moved out on the land, the people who provided the leadership for living off the land, developing shelters, setting up the food, were the so-called “homeless”.

We are familiar with the advice from the Aboriginal community about the “good ways”. One of the most common of these is to speak from your heart, which a lot of people in government and government agencies do not do. We need to understand what is meant by that advice: It takes confidence to speak from your heart, comfort with who and what you are, to show your face. We need to have a good awareness and understanding of what our own cultures and biases are, an understanding of what our world view is and to be in touch with that, if we are recruited to provide assistance to other people. Those bits of advice that I have heard for so many years are really important but I don’t think they’ve been taken seriously by the people to whom they’ve been directed. And most importantly, Friere talks about the importance of being “fully human”, the need for humanized societies, and the need for helping oppressed societies restructure their societies to become humanized. They have become what they are through the forces of dehumanization. These represent challenges for us all, including the MHCC.

Phil: Heard this on the radio last night – it is better to write for yourself and have no public than to write for the public and have no self. The spiritual and cultural aspects are beginning to emerge as we go through this process. As you go into your small groups, if you feel some of the answers to these questions require spiritual engagement, please feel free to say that.

Questions: Break Out groups

1. What constitutes culturally safe practice and what are the conditions in which such practice could take root/thrive/be supported?

2. Do cultural and social institutions need to be restored or reformed in any way in order to accommodate cultural safety? If so, what changes need to be made and what is the best way to approach this?

  • That’s a challenge because the whole area has been bedeviling me for years – how do you operationalize a concept like CS? It could be very complicated or remarkably simple and straightforward. And, in many respects, the second part of the question is tough because to make it work you have to reshape thinking, attitudes and biases of a whole lot of people, simple in that you don’t need to be a rocket scientist to understand the basics of this. It’s kind of painfully common sense – in many ways our North American culture deemphasized common sense and cultural safety in such a way that it has created hazards – we rely too much on the men in the white coats and not enough on knowledge we’ve had for years. So how do you turn the clock back without losing the good things we have in the system – like therapy and some medications?
  • The expression, the inequity of power, really summarizes issues related to CS. I had a lot of pieces to put together when I first connected with FN. I wanted to eat up that treasure that I found, eat it all. One special occasion was first indigenous youth conference in Quebec City. I cried for a week, realizing that what I thought I knew as a white professional was such a small part of what they knew. After seven years, an Elder came to me at an event and asked what are you doing here? He said, now you are ready, you have to start helping us. I could go on and on but I’ve realized that our knowledge is not complete; when people feel from the heart these are the strongest ties, and I still sit with them and honour them for surviving horrible decades of unfairness and hardships. I truly feel that together we can make things better.
  • This question is talking about rooting a philosophy of CS and supporting it so it will thrive and in the work we’ve been doing – this question in the context of FN Métis – they’ve said to us “you don’t know me and how can you work with me if you don’t know me?” And what they mean by that is – the reduction of everything to something manageable is what we’re really focused on – we don’t like things to be messy – we like to put them in manageable chunks in order to move forward. And that’s wrong. When I heard the person, an addictions counselor, say that, to a health care provider, “you don’t know me but you get to define me and by defining me you get to decide what happens in our relationship”, I realized that these are the conditions we live in – where there are power inequities and the people with the power get to define the others. These things happen all the time. So CS is about – I’m a pessimist in that I think the huge change of attitudes required is not going to happen – so when I look at how do you make this thrive – I think there are opportunities like the Commission that could help, but there has to be a shift in attitude there as well. There is a sense that the Commission doesn’t have enough power, but they do, especially compared to that addictions counselor. For example, some think that treaties are special privileges and they aren’t. So it comes down to education in schools, those levels.
  • There’s a connection there between what you’re saying and what Normand said about the Elder telling him he was ready to teach, but that took what – seven or eight years to prepare for that transformative stuff.
  • I think that what makes things unsafe is a lack of communication and knowledge sharing. In New Westminster in our program, there are so many new Canadians and every time I go there they bring food from their homelands, they sing, they do traditional dances. That is something that is really lacking in our work and our fields – we don’t share our customs in that way. There is so much inter-cultural sharing that isn’t happening in Canada and that feeds bigotry. If you don’t know people, don’t have a relationship with them, this is what happens. We need to learn about each other’s families, beliefs and customs. E.g. a valuable employee in China knows a little about a lot of things but in Canada an employee is expected to know a lot about one area. That’s a huge cultural shift for them. We need to get representation from all cultural groups and from youth. Social networking needs to be engaged for the latter to share this kind of information. Mind Your Mind is such a fantastic website.
  • One thing that stands out is what Bill said – that it’s complex but also simple. It’s frustrating because it seems so basic to me. For me CS is humanizing and in terms of CS practice and being in a workplace – if I think about being on a particular team in the MHCC and the work we are doing to engage with other people – I think of it as circles within circles and it’s difficult to work in a CS way in the larger circle if you are not supported in that way in the inner circle. There needs to be commitment to support it at that level. It does feel like an insurmountable task sometimes because of how much change is required. I have a very close friend, like a brother, whose been detained in Iran for months and I’ve been really involved in the campaign. This arose all of a sudden; it’s of extreme urgency. Everyone involved is very emotionally affected. We don’t know when it’s going to end; nothing we are doing seems to work, yet, that work is something I seek solace in because it is a safe space – the way that we work together even though we are under so much stress. We have more than 10,000 people who’ve signed a facebook petition – they call our campaign a noble campaign and they are honoured to be part of this. So this for me is an example of CS.
  • An important dimension of what you are saying is feeling safe in the midst of a chaotic situation.
  • My hero of relational practice is Jesus – most of us walk around and they don’t see the fine details of the other person – the other side. I think Jesus did that and that’s the beauty of those stories. CS is the ability to see more than what most people see and that engagement. How do we do this? Well at the Manitoba Schizophrenia Society it means we don’t just walk in and sit down at our computers – we ask each other how we are doing. You know the battle – we want to love but it’s hard – I have to turn around and recognize that person, give them a hug. Those small moments of time that we take out to get to those details of the person – the fingerprints not just the fingers – it creates a certain environment. The task of the MH system is not to treat illnesses – it’s to create environments in which we promote relational practices that can then address the bio-psycho-social aspects of illnesses. It’s about personhoods and then you’re more likely to get some kind of medical adherence.
  • For me CS practice is that whole ability, that awareness of my own values, beliefs, attitudes and how I convey these when I’m interacting with someone. If I can feel that connection, and sometimes you just feel it, I have to know who I am and how I interact with people. I have to know myself and my own biases in order to start opening and accepting where someone is coming from. It’s about mutual respect – you can’t build a relationship without that respect and trust. It’s a two-way street – we have to welcome and invite each other. From a practical, concrete perspective it comes back to how do we view people, how do we respect them? How do we put ourselves in their space? As a black woman in Halifax, I can tell you Saskatchewan may be challenging, but you have to live in Halifax. It’s about my gifts and your gifts and our experiences and how they have impacted us, and how do we share those? That’s the personal level. At the systemic level, we have to get mouthy – to talk about what is acceptable, how do we want to be treated, how do I want you to treat me. But we have to make it meaningful because it’s about people and their lives and if we don’t do it, the spirit and the soul are wounded.
  • It’s nice to hear so many things being said that I feel constitute CS. I would actually like to express my gratitude for the willingness of people to share roots of issues that need to be addressed, like colonization and power imbalances. These are at the root of how we as peoples live and interact on this land – so CS is about respect but it’s also about a thorough understanding – yesterday I talked about world views and about how we as indigenous people see living and healing – it’s about looking at the whole of a person, not just their own experiences but the experiences of their ancestors, all of the teachings, the knowledge and even more than that, all of the connections they have in the here and now – where are they in their community, what surrounds them, what impacts them? A youth with suicidal tendencies – what is going on in their life – what supports do they have in their community or not? We need to create an environment of care across community. This is a different way of looking at things in terms of worldview – it’s about taking everything into account when looking at an issue. CS in a relationship between two people involves an understanding of that difference in worldview and that the person’s needs have to be met within the context of their own worldview. The conditions for this – there are these larger pieces that impact relational practice – so if there is a systemic issue we need to look at addressing it from a policy perspective – how the systems restrict the ability to function and conduct ourselves in a CS manner. We need to unpack CS from all of these different perspectives. It’s about a continuum.
  • This is a very particular context from which to examine this issue but there is a universal component relevant to any context, any environment – racist communities, newcomers. I’m intrigued by the simplicity of the concept but also by how complex it is. You’re talking about being human but Jean Vanier talks about becoming human – this recognizes that we have to undo, to disengage, in order to become human and re-engage. This means allowing yourself to feel the vulnerability we were talking about yesterday and also about not making assumptions. It includes respect and listening, but it is difficult because we are in a constrained system, but it is also hard for us to un-do, to become human, as individuals. But we have to work within these systems and we also created these systems. In my work, it is a CS place but it is removed from the larger system. These pockets can do a ripple effect. You can have an influence on the system – not easy but not impossible.
  • In my area, what I see everyday – the concepts are so simple but it’s work that takes a lot of consciousness and effort, being aware, educating others, knowing what you bring into the work, trying to get people from outside the culture to understand that – so they are aware of where they are coming from when they interact with Inuit people. A huge piece is being aware that the person in front of you includes the generations, the history, and the inter-generational trauma. It still feels very real and very recent to us. CS practice needs to take that into account and realize that, if someone seems to respond in a positive way to you, if you haven’t been aware of your tone, your body language, they aren’t really saying yes, they just want to get out of there. And the power imbalance is real – even for me; I’m very aware of it because I have more education and speak English. If staff are shut down, you will get nowhere in your work with community. I’ve had staff tell me that they don’t feel respected in their indigenous culture. And if you have respect, even if you make mistakes, people will forgive you for that.
  • The notion of power imbalance reminds me of a story – when I became involved with the Commission, the people I connected with the most were representing consumers, and as I think about that, what brought us all here is my relationship with Phil Upshall. The thing I see that is challenging is – when I studied with Paul Ofrere in the 1980’s – he talked about not taking time to try to change the oppressors, you work with your own community and eventually you no longer need your oppressors. And eventually, they want to join you, because you have become fully human. Most of the people around us come from the oppressor community and they’re not interested in our views.
  • You don’t want to get in my boat – there are some points I want to make – laughter and humour in Aboriginal communities is the number one issue. We can laugh at everything. You have to know people. Like the OKA crisis – nobody took the time to look at the underlying conditions. They went to the band council which was some of the major problems. 20 years later we still have the same problems – we have band council, Indian Act people – they’re still divided. People in the community are predominantly French Catholic, people who are traditional and use their language and people like me who speak English and are educated to a degree – four or five factions within the community – how do you build CS in a situation like that? People talk about respect, like Ron Erwin, Minister of Indian Affairs, but he used to visit us with a suit and tie on. You have to know what the issues are. You know when you go to meet a psychiatrist or a psychologist, you are meeting a stranger and you have to tell him all of your issues – you know how intimidating that is? The issue in our community has to do with the crisis in the 1990’s – it was the traditionalists who blocked the road, but the band council pushed them out – so there is a divide now between the two.
  • You’re saying that we really need relational practices in our own communities, we just can’t assume it’s there – there are lots of challenges related to that.
  • Policies and procedures are guidelines but we need to go back to common sense. When we go to northern communities as I have, respect has to be earned and when they feel safe and respected you will know because that door will be wide open. I had positioned myself in the school where everyone who walked by would be seen by everyone else, but no one would come to my office. So I moved my office to the library and I had people waiting to see me non-stop. They talked and I just sat there and listened and when there was silence I just sat there – there doesn’t always have to be talking. Sometimes after the silence people would start crying. It’s about being in touch and being in tune. I had to put my values in check and be there for them, be in tune with them. So for CS you need to be in tune with your environment, in tune with other people. There are no experts out there. You need to make people feel safe but you need to feel safe too – we all hide behind masks, we need to look past that hand as Chris put it. We all have stories; we wouldn’t be here if we didn’t care. For example, to buy a home, people will soon need more of a down payment, so people are buying up the market right now. We were looking for a home in a Muslim community and the agent knocked and walked right in – the woman was there with her little boy – she didn’t even speak much English and I thought that was so rude. So I asked her what was for dinner, just so she felt some respect. The cupboards were full of mould and the agent said she would have to fix that – they had been living there 9 years. This is an unsafe environment and they were living there. There needs to be consistency and follow-up for CS. We have immigrants who can’t do the work that they came here to do, because they said anything just to get in. These people need help and support.
  • We need to restore family and communities.
  • Lots of misinformation and ignorance, so it’s important not to work at one extreme to the extent of the other.
  • The most effective organizations work collectively with politicians and bureaucrats and when that’s aligned that’s when change happens – you can’t just focus on bureaucrats.
  • Just the history of the Commission itself shows that process at work – a Senate committee that galvanized people around MH reform and then there was a lot of work done politically to get people on board in the provinces, which persuaded the government of Canada to get on board. This exemplifies collective effort.
  • The commitment and willingness to listen to the voices of the people; that is what that was about.
  • You can’t underestimate the power of changing what you do at an individual level, but you need to bridge that to carry the change forward – if you have a policy that restricts you from interacting physically at all with your client for example, or can only work with the client for so many sessions, half of which time is needed to build trust, then the policy is a barrier to CS work.
  • The context piece is integral to safety. We do have to put it in context.

3. What do all of us know that would contribute to advancing excellence in relational practice?

  • Where I sit, I’ve spoken about this already – I showed a documentary in my class about policy, indigenous healing, called No Turning Back – made by aboriginal people that looks at the Royal Commission on Aboriginal peoples (RCAP). RCAP is the biggest initiaitive re: aboriginal voices on what should happen and documents the relationship between the Canadian state and indigenous people in a way no other document does. There are people speaking their truth to the Commissioners in the documentary and documents their trip across the country talking to aboriginal people about what needs to be done. 20 years later we have the AB healing foundation, truth and reconciliation but when we watched this, we saw people speaking their truths and saying if I’m going to tell you my truth you have to do something about it. And the healing foundation is not being funded despite its success, so the government can change its agenda anytime it wants. Like the Kelowna Accord. So when we talk about relational practice, we can’t ignore the fact that inequity of relationships continue to exist. So while there are many of us working in government and community, this is so enormous and the MHCC hasn’t taken a stand on it. My point is that this is more of that same kind of breaching of trust that happens over and over again. I felt yesterday that the MHCC wanted to say “that’s not us”, but it’s an ongoing issue. Why are we not using that knowledge base, i.e. RCAP, within the Commission? Why isn’t it doing a micro-analysis of that report? That document and the funding cuts to AHF tell us a whole lot of stuff that we should know. It’s almost an insult to go back and ask people what we need to know when it’s already been said.
  • I look at the Commission as the facilitator, while change is going to happen in small ways, in communities and organizations across the country. CS is going to be a large part of what we are doing and if we can start considering that content, it will be a huge benefit to the people of Canada.
  • The phase the Commission is at in terms of the strategy – where we are and where we need to be and what we need to get there – the issue with the AHF is part of that. So, we can incorporate that into our analysis of where we are now and what we do from that point. It will change how we move forward but we do need to incorporate that and the bigger issues it speaks to into our work. We need to respect what all of us know and really listen to it, hear it and think about how to incorporate it.
  • We can look at the Commission and the system but the system is us. I’m thinking of the Schizophrenia Society and our Board and how we treat each other – the toxicity, the shame-based interactions. I’m there because I’m a change agent and I’m looking at us at the lower levels – we can say we want the Commission or the government to do this or that but if we want to create a culture of recovery we have to practice it with each other. Rather than focusing on changing the whole system, we have to look at ourselves and at those smaller components.
  • We know that when people have a sense of belonging, identity, feel respected, feel safe, they have the opportunity to open up that space to build healthy relationships From a systemic perspective, there are many barriers to that – there is a level up there that is really problematic and we have no control over that. To advance that, we have to have a humanistic face and this has to infiltrate from the bottom-up. We need to be aware of our own gifts, limitations, align ourselves with those who support our values and beliefs – there is a lot of talk but at the end of the day, how do we operationalize it and how do we know? If we can put our heads together and embrace each other’s world view in order to do that, and for that we have to listen and be silent. Human beings have the potential to achieve anything in a supportive environment, but how do we infiltrate that system? We have to “chunk” it, and go way out into that space that will fit in what we want to do today.
  • I want to start by clarifying that when I talked about policy this morning and the idea that policy is a lens by which to look at things – there are different ways in which we interpret what policy means, so what I was talking about was the way the system operates and how it is funded to operate. The policies outline how the programs in our communities will operate. The way that we are funded, the way that the policies exist that administer the funding to our communities. So, how do we get there? My opinion is similar to what Jo just shared. The way we operate on a functional level, a client-user level, is highly impacted by policies that dictate what you can and can’t access in terms of programs and services. We need to take a broad view but work together to make the changes that are needed. We can’t put the entire onus on the service provider or the client. It needs to be a strategic approach, with efforts happening through the different lenses. When we talk about CS what are we actually talking about? What are the core components to creating a CS safe? How do we ensure our policies, processes, behaviours are culturally competent? We need to break it into those chunks or pieces and each of these will be addressed in a different way. We need to identify how each of the key partners plays a role in working towards CS.
  • This introduces the idea of ethical guidelines for policy.
  • I see it in two ways. There is always a tension between what we know already and do we need to go over it again and again or can we move forward? I want to accelerate things but I came to appreciate the process and sometimes you have to trust the process. There is a fine line, to say enough is enough and move on. But it’s not always evident and to bring everyone to the process has a value beyond the content we are dealing with. What we are doing right now has a huge value and is very informative. What was so meaningful about BB1 was that it was so humane compared to many conferences I’ve attended. Today, I think my org embodies a CS environment but it’s an evolution, so the process is really important. On the other hand, to speak about policies and systems underestimates the power we have to make change within our own small places and communities. A concrete example – I hope the MHCC has very clear priorities like going into medical schools – this would have a huge ripple effect on other systems. In the meantime, sitting here will help me make my small world more CS.
  • My understanding of relational practice is how we relate to each other, the interaction, but it’s also the context. I want to bring it down to the real basics right now. I’m been getting education from the Elders over the past few years and was on the land with social work students recently and what the Elder’s stressed really fits with what we’re talking about and this was, really listen and also the value of silence and speaking from the heart. Not from the head or with jargon, professional jargon, but coming in as the person and being genuine. Because then, this is transferable to other communities. Just being aware of the context, the values and speaking from the heart. If you do this, people will listen because you are really seeing them and they can see you. And for Inuit people doing this on the land is the most powerful way of all. That’s where you see the real person and a lot of knowledge comes out. But if we don’t have the policies in place, this will happen in a hit and miss kind of way.
  • This is citizen to citizen engagement that informs the whole. You embrace life by living it. Many people have lost that traditional way and by losing it are finding themselves increasing dependent on someone doing it for them and this is decreasing their quality of life. The main message is to do everything we can as citizens in the interest of the whole community, and get to work. If this means engaging other systems, then this has to be done. For example, in the Commission, most of the Advisory Committee members don’t even know the Commissioners. So this is something we could do within the Commission. We could also extend the circle out to the communities.
  • I don’t see this just happening in certain places but everywhere, in every aspect of life.
  • Kathy – I was taken by the comments about RCAP – within our branch someone decided we needed to have a policy about traditional healing, and I wasn’t too happy about it because we are doing it. Finally, I went to RCAP to see what RCAP had to say about it, and found a wonderful piece about how policy should address traditional healing so I sent it to our policymaker and I got an email back saying “wow, thank you so much”. So, it’s not an agenda to bury RCAP; I think we just forget. I want to say to the Commission: let’s open up RCAP and see what’s relevant to the national strategy. And then, re: what Winona (AFN) was saying about CS and policy – we’re starting from trying to convince people that CS is valuable – people are not aware and there is a huge education piece so we have engaged AFN and ITK to help us. I would like to see something within FNIHB that defines CS and culturally safe analyses; I’d like to see a policy for Health Canada about how to do culturally safe analyses for policy development, along with a gender based analysis (which is already being used). In terms of roles, I agree it’s about us as individuals and I would like to ask: what is my best role as a change agent? I think if we had this CS analysis as a tool, we would not have seen the funding cut to the AHF. We were shocked and couldn’t understand why and why there isn’t more noise about it?
  • Howard – The image that comes to my mind is the circles from a stone being thrown in the water – and gradually widening those circles. In terms of knowing where to go and how to get there, we need to listen carefully and make sure we understand. We know where CS comes from and the historical context – how can we take what is valuable there and widen it out? Although once you share, there is a risk that in the course of sharing and broadening the range of what we can accomplish, the understanding of it may change somewhat. At a policy level, people have to take responsibility at whatever level they are at. You have to trust your instincts and exercise judgment – hopefully this is a building process so whatever level you are operating at: you listen, make a call, listen again and broaden it out. Listening and acting on what we hear based on where we are at in the process are important.
  • Policy and procedures: why do we need to reinvent the wheel? Let’s take what’s working and build on it. One individual comes to mind when I went up north – it took a while for her to speak to me, because so many people had come and gone. Consistencies, sticking with people, investing our time, these are really important for relational practice. A young man took his life in Oxford House and they didn’t call me to come up when he was becoming suicidal because there was no funding available. Is that relational practice, when there is a price for someone’s head? And I’m part of the problem because if it was my son would I have found the money and gone? We need the consistency.
  • Bill A – I’m a little less than happy about how things are going, even here – we spend so much time talking and not doing. A lot of what we are talking about is good common sense, we’ve known this for years, and the system has forgotten it. So we need to demand to decision makers and policymakers that things actually happen – not another study or research paper for things we’ve known since time immemorial. We have a window here – MHCC – to make a difference. And this window may be closing – we may not make it to year ten. That means we have to move. We have the knowledge – it’s already there. We need action this day.
  • I don’t know what the answer is, but one model doesn’t fit all. We have not come to any type of consensus as to which way to go exactly. I’m wondering where we are going and what we want to get out of this. Not all of us here agree, so if we can’t find a happy medium here, how can we get one outside?
  • Normand – I’ve been guided by Elders for the last 15 years – the quotation – don’t side with the oppressors, change them. We need to do what we need to do to change ourselves and they will come around. Guided by the right people, I use my label as a psychologist to build that network. Our conferences, these are about building a voice from the front-line, so we understand we are all facing the same challenges. Sometimes I’m ambivalent but we have built something at the annual gatherings, there is a feeling of home and haven there. There is an army of front-line workers who want to be trained. An army of administrative people who want the same. That’s a good strategy – you can build up the voice by bringing people together to address an issue – like the suicide prevention conferences – this builds the voice and strengthens trust and expertise. I like the idea of pockets too, working in small pockets.

4. Do we envision a relationship between social exclusion, peer support and relational practice?

  • Ideally yes. We are talking about social inclusion, and this is what peer support is all about.

5. Who do we need to target? What do we need to convince them of?

  • I like the idea of chunks, doable chunks and relating them to one another. From the work I’ve done with women, one person can change a life. One woman, got a hug from another and just that recognition as a human being, it changed her life. Also, I hear a lot of women talking about walking in and not being treated well, by the system. And, that travels by word of mouth – that the service is not a good place to go, which means that people might stop using the service. And location of services is important. I think why the AHF was not funded, it was a strategic decision to ensure that Aboriginal people not become too strong and powerful and in my area the birth rate is high. Because linked to healthy people are their claims. If they are too healthy, they are strong, they can demand, they can dismantle the master’s house using his own tools. So I think the AHF was way more successful than anyone thought. I think we need to write about it, in all sorts of forums, because I don’t think the decision was made by chance. Also, the medicalization of AB resistance is absolutely huge. For example, they label gang members as having FASD, and there is no evidence that this is true, but some would rather look at it this way than look at the social determinants of why people join gangs. Or to say that 70% of people in prison have mental illness, that makes me really uncomfortable. The target is moving all the time, but I like the idea of taking our strengths and working on those chunks and coming together.
  • We need to target those people we deal with on a daily basis – that it’s OK for them to share their thoughts and beliefs ongoing. And when dealing with bureaucrats, get it on their agenda too – convince them that the people on the ground have the knowledge and that’s who they need to engage with.
  • We need to start with ourselves – the framework for the strategy, the vision is that there is no “us” and “them”. We need to think about what that means and we need to live it. I’m working on developing a strategy to be inclusive of diversities, not by or for other people. It’s especially important for us to be in CS environments to do that work. There has to be reflexivity that we take on as individuals and at an organizational level and never feel like that work is done.
  • Chris – We have to target ourselves and the Commission needs to look at itself – the Board needs to take time to look at itself and have these kinds of discussions, not just deal with business. I think we do need to target the Commission – I’m not going to give up on that – there are beautiful people there. We need to speak the truth in love to people. And there is no solo advocacy; it’s about collective advocacy. Whatever we are targeting, we can create that collective advocacy for it. Everyone has a voice, but do we hear that voice? There are multiple targets, but the advocacy needs to be collective.
  • We need to target our leaders too – we need congruency between policies and practice and target a system that silences people’s voices. How do we make the system support us in becoming?
  • Sometimes those we don’t make an effort to inform are the politicians. What do we need to convince them of?
  • We need to utterly convince them that this is the will of the people and that it is common sense.
  • We don’t need to convince anybody, we need to enter into a conversation with them – people from all walks of life and I’m thinking of the Commission’s roundtables. And we don’t need to convince them; the conversations will help to create the change.

1. What constitutes culturally safe practice and what are the conditions in which such practice could take root/thrive/be supported?
2. Do cultural and social institutions need to be restored or reformed in any way in order to accommodate cultural safety? If so, what changes need to be made and what is the best way to approach this?

Phil: In my experience, cultural safety or a safe place is one in which the atmosphere is created where you can be yourself at any given time. I recognized this when I was in the psychiatric hospital where the nurses were wonderful. As soon as the nurses tried to persuade me to become a better person for the sake of my first wife with whom my marriage was on the rocks, I shut down. It took me a while and a change of nurses before that unsafe place became a safe place for me. The culture, my sense of it, was a relationship of not accepting who I was, as a male. Culture can be provided in many ways. That experience still rattles me when I think about it because I felt I was being taken advantage of. I needed to find out who I was as a person. My culture was male and they invalidated me. In terms of healing, you have to be secure.

Lorna: Safe places are those in which you are not threatened, but accepted and loved for whom you are, and others not making assumptions as to what your maleness is.

Phil: Exactly. I grew up with assumptions about who I was and what I should become. I didn’t know who I was and it would have been good to have the guidance much earlier in my life about who I was. I got nothing from the church in which I grew up, in terms of spirituality.

Vicki: It is practice that at some level disrupts. At the level of policy, there is disruption that occurs. Culturally safe practice would disrupt the status quo; there would be a broader effect, some actionability. One thing that is different about it is that is it meant to disrupt the system. People feel uncomfortable for some time at the personal level. Cultural safety means we don’t always feel good from a cultural perspective.

Tina: I feel safe in the MDS of Manitoba. Our Executive Director “cleans up behind us”. She asked me to take a look at cognitive behaviour and I re-wrote it myself. She has empowered each of us to do our best. Everyone is accepted where I work. It is okay if we are having a bad time, no one questions it. One time, I forgot to do a presentation, and my Executive Director said, “I hate when that happens.” I come from a background of real estate where that would get you fired. I had myself packing my bags, but her attitude was let’s get on with it. I have the opportunity to go at my own pace. Her biggest job is getting the self-help workers to have a normal life, keeping them engaged with their 20 hours a week. We are all allowed to have hopes and dreams. That is something we forget when we have an illness. The doctors at the Selkirk Mental Institution had a token consumer and were talking about what they could do for consumers. The consumer said he wanted housing in the best part of town. The Doctor gave him back the ability to have a dream, and began to help him take the steps to achieve that.

Ed: Cultural safety is a word that is now capturing different pieces, creating language for me. Often we try to summarize bigger ideas with one word, in a labeling process. I guess we try to do that to capture many concepts succinctly. Cultural safety summarizes many concepts I have been learning in my healing journey; trust, respect, equal, non-power relationships. I have been learning that through my own healing process with elders, the teaching process I have been through. This story is a core example of what it is that we are seeking, what we can call cultural safety, relational healing.

Years ago, when I was learning in North West Ontario with Alex Steed, one of my elders, we were waiting at a youth gathering for the youth to arrive. He was teaching me some things and all of a sudden, his gaze went to the floor. I followed his eyes and saw this little ant walking into the circle. Alex says, “See that ant?” I said “yeah”. He said “He is my brother. He is no better than I, and I am no better than him. When we as humans can think that way, we will have the peace we seek.” That has transformed my relationship with all people and all of creation. How do we bridge the gaps, those artificial barriers between us? I don’t believe we can help people on their journeys of healing if we are one up and they are one down. When people refer to me as a Doctor, I often do a teaching like this, especially with young people. I like that they respect the education I achieved but I don’t want that to be a barrier to the kind of relationship we want.

“Patient” automatically creates that relationship. I am not even comfortable with the word “client”. “People” is what I come down to. We are all humans, and I am no greater than you nor you, me.

Brenda: As a grad student going to Queens, a fairly white University, I was one of two visible minorities in my grad class. I asked how things would apply to Northern Ontario for FN communities, and they would say “I don’t know”. I found that difficult and challenging. Luckily, I met Ed and Dr. Clare Brandt who showed me there were different ways. I worked in a federal prison and realized it was only by the grace of G-d that I walked out the door every night rather than back into the prison. We had much the same experiences. In reflecting back, we can sympathize, empathize, see ourselves in others. The women didn’t see me as top down. They taught me more than I taught them. I didn’t know much of my culture and tradition and invited them to teach me. They showed me I did know lots about my culture, for example, about respect to our elders, the importance of family. I may not have known a lot about the ceremony, but I did know lots about our culture. We would be deep in conversation and this woman 20 years older than me, said she could have changed my diaper when I was a kid, and we laughed. They reminded me I was just the same as them. Just because I am a Doctor doesn’t mean I know it all and would refer them to others who knew more than me. You are there more as a guide. Being humble, not acting as an expert is part of cultural safety.

Last year, I was commissioned to write about mental health and illness. I consulted with elders who told me that in traditional times, people with mental illness would be seen as people with gifts, in our communities as teachers, to remind us of something about ourselves. We are all human beings, whether we are prisoners or not. During the riots, some of the women had been strip searched, and were told they had to have an internal exam before getting their clothes back. I was asked to go in and interview one woman. She was shackled, naked on a bare floor. I felt that as so wrong. As a human being, how would we treat each other?

Eric: So far we have heard vantages distinctly different from mine; front-line, researchers. I worked in an institution that ultimately represents the holder of power, rightly or wrongly, for centuries. What is interesting is how do we create an interest within the walls of that powerful institution to create balance, not make assumptions about others? That represents an enormous shift for a huge institution with a long history.

Trust and respect are fairly constant expectations. Patricia yesterday offered the notion that there needs to be respect between the holder of power and those historically who have been without power. The holder of power could feel guilty, and the person without power could feel angry. Achieving that at a systemic level is bigger, not altogether different. The challenge is to create conditions to help people understand. It feels like this massive locomotive plowing through the world for the past 4 or 5 hundred years may slowly be losing its momentum. There are those of us on the train trying to find the levers to convince the conductor to slow it down. I don’t know what the strategy is to do that. Being invited into the circle and being able to hear may be in and of itself the most effective one. When Bill said this morning, government people don’t speak from the heart, I bristled. The challenge is how do you reach people that are part of that institution?

Rose Sones: I apologize for being late. Yesterday, I was doing competency training for government. Sometimes I feel a lone voice. This is a values based discussion. There is no time line. The more I work with government, the more I realize this does take a long time. We should not be surprised that people who have had no opportunity to ask the questions are not on board. How do we build the intentional space in which people are safe to ask the questions? It is very rare to have those safe places to ask those questions in confidence. This is process, a learning opportunity, to build cultural competence that is a two way street. The people who hold onto the information are the FN, Inuit and Métis, and we have to be prepared to share. The opposite is also true; the level of secrecy in government prohibits sharing.

We have a lifetime of practice; it is not an open end state. Learning about FHIM may be a little different than learning about immigrants. That self-awareness of your immediate response to individuals is what we have to have. It is that intentional space. There are those willing to take the risk to be vulnerable. You need gate openers in government who are willing to have that conversation.

Patricia: We have been starting to explore how FNIHB could strive more to cultural safety. So, I have had the opportunity for a lot of discussions, including at the NMHA meeting in September, 2009. A phrase shared at that meeting by Sylvia McAdam was that our people would call this “walking together”. It is the closest, simplest way to approach talking about cultural safety. What are the barriers to doing this? They have a lot to do with power, and being self-reflective about power relationships. In my case, I am a white psychiatrist, working with the Feds, and I need to be self-reflective about that.

I see it operating on many levels, personal, individual, and organizational. From the ant story comes humility. A progress and flow comes from walking together, not a linear walk, but a striving. How do we get there, support cultural safety? The answers there are very complicated. Ideally, there should be supports in place. It goes beyond the individual and the roles people are expected to play. The problem, what drives it, is accountability and how that is perceived. If someone walks out of your office and commits suicide, you are accountable. I want to move beyond the push back, and develop some solutions. Walking together is how I understand cultural safety.

Rob: All of us have culture. Some have many within our beings. I think about the cultures I have worked within, for example, the culture of professionals, corrections, boundaries in all these areas in your life. It is about power and control. That affects us more than anything.

Culture is a dynamic thing. I have a lot of respect for aboriginal cultures from what I have learned. As a child, the Pentecostal Church system terrorized me with their speaking in tongues. Two neighbour boys were Catholic and told me I was going to hell and they weren’t.

Institutional powers and their cultures make you pay a price for going against their cultures. If you go against the dominant culture, you will pay a price for it. People inherently understand what culture is. There is a growing understanding of respect and what it means. Respect to me is when someone has been heard and also understood.

I have sat in many circles with many different purposes, healing, prayer, sweat lodges. You realize that everyone is your teacher and come to respect some people as elders. It is a lie long learning process to me about respect and cultural safety.

In Saskatchewan, we are talking about patient centered care. In the research I have done, it boils down to cultural safety. It is more than that. We can’t teach our care providers without making sure there is competence in the system. If the system doesn’t change, it won’t be safe for the care providers. Someone has to step in front of the train sometimes. The dominant system has exercised power and control to keep the status quo.

Diane: Thanks to Lorna, who I recognize as my elder, for facilitating the circle. How do we go about changing things? We are currently involved in a project that involves FNIHB, Addictions and Mental Health, community members, our Director of Health, about 10 people in all. Our Director of Health is competent, a Mik’Maw. We didn’t get a shift in our colleagues until Claudia spoke about being able to go anywhere in this country, but when she leaves her community she doesn’t quite fit. The people realized there is more to it; there is this outside part. What you are trying to do is connect with someone in a real way. We have been trying to get our professional people in a room so they will shift a little bit more.

My frustration is that it always comes from the people who are vulnerable. They have to do all the relationship building re: trust. When will our mainstream partners imitate them? They are willing to come into the circle, but when will this shift happen? To me, that is the biggest barrier, that it is always the most vulnerable reaching out.

I want to define cultural safety in a different way. A lady that has every label calls our office; no one wants to take her calls. One day, I picked up her call. She was angry because she could not see her psychiatrist. After my conversation with her, she was calmed, just happy that someone listened to her and didn’t hang up. People should be respected for being living human beings. Another example is an alleged sex offender who wants to do the sex inventory. We take 3 hours to get through a quarter of the test. He came back 5 times in one day. Eventually, he said, I don’t want to do this anymore and I want my file destroyed. So, I shredded his file. He asked me, “Do you feel safe with me?” I said I did. We have ugly jobs to do but we can do them in a culturally safe way.

Jennifer: Listening, I realize that what happens in a culturally safe place is that you are open to new ways of thinking. With each person, I am making new meaning. Myself, I feel cultural safety when I am being treated with dignity, and I know its absence, when I am being treated as an object.

It is easy for me to understand cultural safety in a therapeutic perspective. Cultural safety seems so benign. The concept may not capture what is required at a policy level where there must be disruption. There is a politicized aspect to cultural safety in New Zealand, a socially transformative agenda. I wonder, can cultural safety hold all these ideas? But maybe that openness is what is required. By standardizing it and saying what the competencies are might do injustice to the concept and the spirit of this. This notion of identity and categorizing ourselves, they are such “thin” descriptions of ourselves. I am attracted to “thickened” narratives that invite us to see the cultural restraints we are all up against. The possibility of collaboration presents itself.

Terry: Picking up on what Jennifer said when you enter a circle and it is safe, it permits whatever in you that is related to what others are saying to surface, and new understandings to emerge. Safe circles are where we continue our journey of learning. Thinking about Diane’s comment that it is often the most vulnerable who have to initiate relationships and educate, I wonder whether they are in fact the strongest. Their circumstances may make them vulnerable, but if they have chosen to enter those circumstances with a purpose connected to the Creator, perhaps in providing leadership in cultural safety and social justice, they are fulfilling their purpose. Sometimes we spend a lifetime figuring out what our purpose is.

I have a need to understand institutional power relationships and how to unsettle them, dislodge and change them without pushing them to become more entrenched. I felt like an “adolescent” when I went on a diatribe about pharmaceutical companies and the biomedical model. Mentors, elders in the group brought me back to “adulthood” and the recognition that we must deal with these tensions in ways that bring groups into alignment, not opposition with one another.

I think hope exists in the way we are engaging with each other here. This we can duplicate in whatever spheres of influence we are part of. This has to be a collective process; the challenge is to get ego concerns, our individualism, out of the way to develop alliances with others. I still need to learn not to be conflictual with those with whom I do not agree; but instead to invite them into a dialogue. They are not the “enemy”. We are all in this together. Some may be responsive to hearing my point of view, and be able to shift their own, just as I will in hearing theirs. The only reliable way of inviting cultural safety is through relationships. This means learning through encounters that provide an experiential, direct understanding of relational practice and cultural safety. A recent example is President Obama’s reaching out across Party divisions to engage Republicans and Democrats in the health care discussion. Even though there was considerable resistance, having the gathering was a good example of “walking the talk”, demonstrating what collaboration means, and his belief in the possibility of achieving it.

A final thought I have is my concern that these terms, “cultural safety and relational practice” may be co-opted so institutions can appear to be politically correct. Using the words and putting them into practice are two different things; only in relationships do people learn and experience these concepts. That is why what we are doing here is so important.

Lorna: One thing I have been hearing in my work with people who ware working in spheres where there have been inequalities of some kind, what comes up is shame; all different kinds of shame that people feel. It is from people who hold the power and wield the power they hold, people who have been acting a role they do not feel aligned with. Because we live and work in such hierarchical structures, though we might have power, there is always someone who has power over us. From the shame comes the anger, and often we don’t get the opportunity to recognize it, sublimate it, so we push it back.

The other is that when people can be generous and appreciative in spirit with one another; I have been working with groups who have been newly in partnerships with one another. It was a challenge for me to learn what worked. I learned from the old people I spent some time with how generous each was to everyone. It was generosity of the whole spirit; how carefully they observed and were watchful of everyone in the community to be sure that everyone was in a state of wellbeing, and if they weren’t they didn’t make a big deal of it but helped them return to a better state. We haven’t learned in our world how to be caring for the communities we are part of.

Phil: The experts to me are the patients and consumers in the system and experts should not be brought in to say what person centered care should be—let the people inform the services.

3. What do all of us know that would contribute to advancing excellence in relational practice?
4. Do we envision a relationship between social exclusion, peer support and relational practice?
5. Who do we need to target? What do we need to convince them of?

Lorna: This morning many things came up that contribute to this next set of questions. If each of could speak to these reflecting on what we heard this morning. These questions almost point to us coming up with a criterion base for defining cultural safety and relational practice, so be aware of that as we speak to these. What advances or contributes to relational practice?

Ed: I, too, have the fear that we are getting into defining, coming up with criteria, creating training. I think the point of this is to create the dialogue, the common language that can create the dialogue. It is people that tell the system how to change, not visa versa. I have many ideas to explore that are stimulated by this conversation. I am listening to what is going on and thinking what for me is cultural safety. I think of my relationships and I realize another part is speaking from the heart. The spiritual, the intuitive part is such an important part of us. Spirit is important in the healing journey. We talk about human relationships that are culturally safe, trusting, equal, respectful; all possible when we engage with each other on all those levels of heart, mind, spirit, physical. In my exchanges with people, I can identify moments of change for me as well as them because I am engaged on all those levels because we have had that full engagement. Often I will share my stories when the person triggers that for me, regardless of so called professional boundaries. We need to start with our own sphere of influence. It is a mindfulness of your personal beliefs and systems, and yours of mine, because we are all part of the same human family. We need to start with young people. Art Soloman said, “Your beliefs do not negate or change my beliefs and visa versa” and when we have that relationship we have cultural safety.

Phil: For myself, having been an observer for a long time, I think it has to start with ourselves, modeling the behaviours. Our elected and non-elected governments have allocated to themselves huge amounts of power. You can see it the way corporations conduct themselves. They used to give back to the community. I think we have to look to ourselves and our own conduct. Cultural safety is a daily practice. Relationships are things we build every day and don’t come easily, and we have to work at it. We have to look at how we abuse the little bits of power we do have. Returning to some of the earlier teachings all of us have, developing a sense of respect for other people. Like Rob, I grew up with Pentecostalism. I now have a safe space for myself that I have carved out.

Rob: social and cultural institutions need to be reformed. When I saw what happened at the University of Ottawa when Ann Coulter spoke there and wasn’t allowed to speak because of safety concerns, I was happy about that, but questioned myself. When you are or not allowed to speak is a big issue in cultural safety. It starts with the individual and goes out from there. There is a need for change in terms of what our government organizations are prepared to accept as acceptable. I don’t have any answers as to how that change needs to happen.

Patricia: I agree that change needs to start with each of us, but what needs to happen at an institutional level that can support these individual attempts? In our own organization there are some emerging examples of how governance has been changed in terms of who is invited to the table, looking at what is in the parameters of what we can do together. Having AFN at the table has helped us move the process forward. Cultural safety is really exciting and perhaps one aspect of that is to lift up examples of what is working well in terms of working together—you sense movement. When we are striving for cultural safety, we sense movement. By lifting up examples, you have some role modeling. People can see both parties in the relationship benefitting.

Even in the short term, I can see an evolution that is happening in terms of how we are looking at partnership instead of consultations, a shift and movement in that, yet a long way from achieving anything that is truly culturally safe, giving voice to those who haven’t had much voice.

In a lot of discussions, the medical model is seen as being fixed and top down, patients not being heard. I sense a transformation coming in the medical model through inter professional teams. I see the emergence of that. I see a budging happening within the medical model, a movement towards teamwork. In Health Canada we are looking at what that would mean in aboriginal communities. The recovery model having peers and consumers survivors at the table is informing the work of the MHCC. There is a democratization going on that is inclusive.

Diane: I would like to fin excellence in relational practice. At the systemic level, we could check the medical model from the medicine wheel. If we require our systems structures to ask those same questions, are the physical, mental, emotional, environmental, spiritual components culturally safe? Are we allowed to be essentially who we are in our system? We need to check our systems. How do we get the work done? When do we collaborate? Work in our office, the one on one, doesn’t happen. I am for it 100%, but not sure how we do it in a way that balances it with one on one time. We are an outcome oriented group; it is all about stats at the end of the day. Relational practice is about process, not about stats. What if the person doesn’t change, but the journey was worth the time? How do we evaluate that? We need to be able to find a way to balance our process with the systems expectations for certain outcomes. Where is the middle?

Jennifer: What counts, what is measurable, may obscure what is meaningful. So much at Universities is predicated on developing specialized knowledge and people can go away feeling they have specialized knowledge that is authorized against other kinds of knowledge. How do we honor the knowledge people gain but maintain openness to other knowledge? Outcome measurements authorize a single form of knowledge that is scientific knowledge, not specific to the medical model but to others as well, How as educators can we use a space for people to be reflective in what they know and do? Do we have to convince somebody? Isn’t it about creating experiences like this to live it, to be transformed and open? It is not that any idea can be held without comment or being remarked on, but not convincing people that this is the way to go, rather setting up collaborative opportunities and engaging them in these.

Ed: Looking at the world, we can say there is a paradigm shift in the world. Can we institutionalize that paradigm shift and if we can what is the impact of that?

Rose: My background is psychology. Some of the weakness in the humanistic approach, just providing a space in which people can share, is not enough. There is racism so deep (for example, in Churches), there are remnants and structures in society that are against having that discussion. There are people that have to stand up and say there are things that are not right, not moral.

I want to make a pitch for criteria. I sat on the committee writing cultural competency curriculum for Doctors. That is a starting point. You have to set the bar. There is a total risk that people will stay with the check box approach to cultural safety. The New Zealand government was proud of their approach and put out a post card explaining how you introduce an elder that is a check box approach, not the relational. But that is a place to start.

Vicki: Your earlier point was about values. I believe that when we are targeting we are always targeting ourselves first. In different interactions, you are confronted with something different about yourself. I am involved in a nursing circle of mainly women. One woman in the group says she starts every day asking “what is the highest good I can do today?” The target is there. My students also teach me every day. One of the questions that regularly come up is where is cultural safety in terms of the providers when racial stereotypes are present? Sometimes, patients will say, “I don’t want that nurse”. That may be unsettling. How do we address those things? It has to be said, “That is not okay”. Cultural safety is taking a stance. It is about health equity. Let’s make it so we have health equity in this country. I struggle with how to do that so it is culturally safe for all. The kind of discussions we have in the classroom mean that in my evaluation I have a backlash for those desires. I have to keep the outcome in mind, which is health equity and wellbeing for everyone. Much of it is achieved by how we interact, but there are other things we are attuned to.

Terry: There is something I have been wondering for a while, and that is, how do we get our “best practices” supported so they are sustainable over time? It seems that so many of what we consider to be culturally safe programs are the result of the coming together of like minded people who manage to acquire funding and support for periods of time, then fade away because of contextual factors. Good examples of such programs are many of those funded by the Aboriginal Healing Foundation, Browndale, and some of the ones Bill briefly described earlier. I am sure many of us have experience with such programs, and lots of evidence as to why they were such good models of relational, culturally safe practice. How do we ensure they persist over time? It isn’t enough for us to have good conversations about what constitutes culturally safe practice; we need long range support for that embedded in systems, and a commitment by government through their funding mechanisms to these values and practices.

Eric: Thinking about that point and Lorna’s, it is an existential question. Is government meant to be a reflection of the values and perspectives of people it serves or does it influence the values and perspectives of people it serves? In some instances, government has to be visionary. In FNIHB some people have been leading this effort. Our Deputy Minister is the first who has ever been to communities, spending time with the Chief, being on the land. He has become a quiet champion for all these things. When we were talking to him about the need for a greater sense of cultural safety within the government, even with this personal experience, he said he has visiting a cutting edge program in Winnipeg that demonstrated cultural safety, so it isn’t new. What I wished I had said is that excellence has existed in corners despite the system, but the system has to evolve to support the excellence. Inviting people into the circle, physically and metaphorically is an essential element.

Rose: ITK does this, takes people from the government and sets them down at the kitchen tables, into the communities. It is simple.

Rob: Your comments yesterday regarding the fear of people who are threatened by cultural safety, the fear those providers have to deal with because of the shift to person centered care; cultural safety might need to find ways to eliminate that fear or lower that fear.

Brenda: I was thinking as I was listening and thought of a few things, how the elders connect with people and their ability to be present in what the person is saying, and to be a “safe haven”. How do we do that for others? I was struck by what Eric and Vicki shared about disrupting the status quo. Our elders do that with us sometimes about where we are going. The feather teaching is that the feather is the length of the distance from the mind to the heart. On the systemic as well as the personal level, that might be one way to look for cultural safety.

Ed: Cultural safety is a piece of a paradigm shift. It may be really simple. I had an experience with Frank McNaulty running a suicide prevention program on an Island, having the elders teaching the youth. We had the funder join in for a day. There was a thunderstorm and afterwards we had to get the elders back from the Island in the dark with the rain coming down. That was relational and it tied him and I together ever since. A while ago I was having some difficulty with FNIHB and Frank took the time out of his day to listen to me about the concerns and told me from the FNIHB perspective why some of those concerns were there. That is relational, based on people connecting and knowing those connections are there on so many levels. Having him explain in person was more effective than anything I could have written.

Lorna: I want to say how much I appreciate that story. This gathering is called BB2. There are lots of things that happen within our institutions and organizations that are long held habits of the way we treat each other and those who have been marginalized and excluded like those with mental health and addictions challenges; habits we developed in the way we “othered” them and excluded them. In Prince George at the gathering, people were telling stories about how people were treated up there by people of the medical profession. The first assumption when they come for care is that they are drunk.

When I was working with a group responsible for the treaty process, one person asked when are those people going to stop being victims, get back their history? They must feel safe to say that. How do people get to feel culturally safe enough to stand up to those statements? Especially in a country where we have perfected our ability to deny that racism, othering, exclusion, exist, and we are so quick to say “we are nice, we are not like that”.

That is what these questions are asking. How do we create strength in people to stand up and say that is unacceptable in all our work places? What got us into this place as intelligent, caring human beings? What keeps us here, upholding these practices and inhumane, exclusionary institutions? It has to be worked at, at many different levels, personal and institutional. The leadership is extremely important as models to others. What do we do to affect the leadership? We have to be included in these dialogues on mental health fully and take leadership roles.

I think of an evaluation I did in BC in which leadership between the indigenous and the western group had to sort things out, sit down and be open to each other. They hired two people, one that had understanding of the indigenous ways of being, and the other who acted for the company. They were trying to forge a working partnership to achieve something.

Each person had to make a statement about how this partnership would benefit the indigenous group and how it would benefit the company. It wasn’t just the benefit to the indigenous group who are usually seen as lesser than. The two people, whenever there were points of tension, would get together and hash it out, then go back to talk to their own side. Each of them had to see the tensions from the other side. That was the key to the amazing outcomes that occurred.

The sense of “we are in this together”, there is something each of us is contributing to the collective work we are doing. It is gaining knowledge, getting to a deeper understanding of each other’s cultural ways and values, and knowing when you can change those in order to work together.

Jennifer: My concern is that cultural safety not become formulaic, but rather a teaching relationship, teaching about how to think and how to relate, to prepare people to challenges, raise the issues in the workplace. People come in wanting the answers, wanting you to be the authority figure, and you have to challenge, de-construct that.

Terry: The challenge is not only in preparing students in this way, but in changing systems to support their ability to relate in this way.

Tina: From a business environment, people will only make change if they are convinced they will save money by focusing on mental wellness. The greater world is focused on business and making money.

Jennifer: Educating people one at a time is again individualistic, and we are looking for how to support this collectively. I heard this a.m. the need for solidarity, the need for social action, sharing a common vision that can stand up in solidarity against oppression in all its forms. There are people across all sectors who can share this vision.

Diane: Being part of this circle now ties me to you and to your ancestors.

Ed: All of this is processes for building critical mass, where all this becomes obvious.

Patricia: The challenge is to move it beyond individuals. FNIHB is looking to create a tool.

Reporting Back from Break-Out Groups

What constitutes CS practice and what are the conditions in which such practice could take root?

Caroline: We discussed the challenges of operationalizing this concept and how to mobilize action around it by bringing it to common sense concepts of core values. To try to keep it simple in terms of operationalizing it, we talked about power inequities and imbalances between individuals, groups of people and people and institutions, between communities and government. We need to acknowledge these and work to address them. We also talked about breaking things into manageable chunks, meaning in the places where we are situated. We can work as activists, clinically, as policy makers, so the people looking at it from one point of view can see it from other points of view. We have to make sure that we continue to talk to each other, relate to each other. Often the ways in which a policy is crafted has a direct impact on how a client and practitioner interact, setting the parameters that bound the relationship about which the clinician has no control, e.g. not being allowed to see the client outside an office. We talked about what kind of change agents we could be. We could be change agents as individuals and we work in organizations that can be as well. We must continually reflect back upon our own practice so it can be culturally safe. We need humanizing practices; we need to be aware of our own beliefs and assumptions about others. We also see the Commission as a change agent in certain areas. Also, we need to call on work that has already been done, such as the foundational documents of RCAP and the Aboriginal Healing Foundation. We talked about the complexity of communities and the different groups within communities; we mustn’t assume there is only one cultural group even within a small community.

Do institutions need to be restored or reformed in any way and if so what needs to be done and how?

One of the main considerations is around curriculum. What we need is curriculum change in professional institutions, including schools and universities, so that cultural safety and relational practice and theory are taught as basic principles. Also, need support and training for workers already in the field doing the work. This also involves chunks – working at the inter-personal level as well as all levels. Collective advocacy is critical. We will have a stronger voice if it is a collective one. And we need to not focus on the oppressor, but as change agents, to look collectively at how we would like things to be and put our efforts there, to bring people into the circle with us. Take a multi-level approach; we need to work at an interpersonal level and at all levels. Need to have a commitment and willingness to listen to people in many different contexts; cultural safety can be the ability to listen to what people have to say. For example, Denise in the DVD talked about the Doctor not hearing her. There has to be systemic change in order for that to happen, e.g. if a physician has no time to listen to someone, then policies need to be changed – you can’t blame the person who is caught in the policy.

What do we know that would contribute to advancing excellence in relational practice?

Josephine: We talked about the importance of creating an environment of trust, which involves self-knowledge and respect. Self-awareness is key in being able to provide respect, knowing where I am coming from so I can see and embrace where the other person is coming from, their values and beliefs. We also talked about different levels; the need to use the information that is known, including teachers from the Elders. The most important thing is to look at the other as a human being, to listen, to embrace silence when needed, to enable a person to have a voice. There is also change required at the systemic level, the organizational level, and the individual level. If we can put our heads together, with others who support the same values, we can make a difference. But it really has to come from the bottom up. The trust is what creates the personal and ethical space and we need to take responsibility as individuals to make that happen. Because it is so big, we also need to chunk the tasks, choose what aspect each of us will address, because it is so big. From the systems perspective, it’s important to realize that power inequities and imbalances affect individuals at the personal level. We need to communicate that to people in leadership so these changes can happen.

Do we envision a relationship between social exclusion, peer support and relational practice?

All are interrelated. Social exclusion involves stigma and a severing of relationship. Messages we send both verbally and non-verbally exclude people many ways, convince them they are insignificant. We have to make people feel they belong, and have a voice to contribute to the dialogue and make sure they have that voice in the beginning, not at the end. Without the support, it is difficult to foster a relationship. Peer support enhances relational practice and social inclusion – because it gives people that voice. Social exclusion needs to be looked through different lenses, including all of the “isms” we label people with, and we need to be congruent in terms of our messages and actions. From a social perspective, we need to be mindful of the messages we send about who is excluded.

Who do we need to target and what do we need to convince them of?

Ella: There is lots of overlap with what has already been said. The simple answer is everyone – decision makers, policy makers, administrators. But it would be safe to start with ourselves, to look at our own practices, our own situations. What can we contribute to the process and what is the role of policy? You can design wonderful policies but they won’t be useful if not infused with humanity. The challenge is how to get everyone on board. We have to enter into a conversation that everyone will be invited into, not necessarily to convince them of anything. They may know little about us, but we may be poorly informed about them. We are trying to break the divide between “us” and “them”, so rather than convincing them, we need to invite people into the conversation. Ignorant and ill-informed people exist but most try to do their best. Opening the conversation is a good first step.

Lorna: From what I have heard, a lot of these themes came up in our group. It’s important for us to be patient in hearing the stories over and over because each time we hear them, there are other dimensions that we hear to understand what CS and relational practice mean. it’s interesting because I’ve been looking at the literature and what I’ve found is that these terms are coming up mostly in health and nursing, even though the ideas and concepts are important to other institutions as well. In the literature, people are grappling with what these mean and in our group, people were putting their own understanding and languaging into what these mean. As we were trying to convey our understanding, we each were learning from those stories people The first big idea people resonated with was to do this work we have to come up with and follow a simple plan and not make it so complicated. This brought to mind, when I was a teenager and my mom and older sisters and others were trying to sort out what had happened to us and they would be meeting and meeting and talking and talking and my oldest brother said one time, “You know, you went to all of these meetings, what are you solving with all these meetings and this talking – what are you doing about what you are meeting about?” To him, it appeared we were making it so complicated. So we need a simple plan. The idea that came up was to create opportunities for experiences of what relational practice and cultural safety is, so that people can feel it, experience it, and draw lessons from that. That came up from a story Eric told about his Director going to two FN communities and coming back having learned lessons from those experiences that influence the policy determinations and decisions.

The other big thing is connecting the head and the heart. In our relationships, our workplaces, or wherever we may be, we need to make that connection. So many of our institutions are predicated on the notion of rationality, of keeping things arms-length and not bringing the rest of yourself into things. I told a story that offered two ideas. The first was about the value and importance of leaders and what they do to model CS and to lead it for their community. This led to a dialogue about how do we create those leaders within our learning institutions? And is it possible? Leadership and what leaders do is really important.

The second idea was when partnerships are being developed between groups that are habituated to not working together, how do we build those bridges? An example I gave was of two organizations that created a position on both sides so that when misunderstandings, biases emerged, the two leaders met “on the bridge” and talked through the divide and were able to bring in understandings from each side. Language was what the divide was. They became, in a sense, interpreters, so there group understood how the other group understood the issues. When we are seeing the other side of the bridge from our perspective, we need opportunities to be able to see it from their perspective. In partnerships, there have to be those opportunities when people who have not worked together in the past, especially when there is a real power imbalance, people do not see themselves as oppressors usually, and neither do they see their own oppression. Each group started with what will benefit me by being a partner. Each group has to see how the other will be a benefit to them. They have to value what the other group brings to the relationship. But oftentimes the group that has had the power doesn’t see the benefit of partnering, so being able to see and value what each brings to the partnership, this creates the grounds for cultural safety.

Cultural safety can be seen not only viewing it only from the “safety” end, but also as a disruptive thing; we are disrupting institutions, families that have been unsafe, and there will be resistance. It’s important to take the time to look at that, especially when bringing it to families, communities, and institutions. Yet, resistance and disruption can be befriended. There is also the fear of CS becoming formulaic, standardized and manualized, because the western world is prone to do that, to come up with neat and tidy interpretations and definitions. We need to watch that. If it is relational practice, the meaning has to come from the relationship. The group appreciated the use of a circle to be able to gain that. To do that, in a circle, we are deconstructing and decolonizing ourselves. That needs to occur in any space we are engaged with.

It is important that we don’t place the burden of change on the individual. Yes, each person has to act and react when the space is culturally unsafe, but we need to build collectives so they can be supported and people don’t have to take on the burden of change feeling isolated and alone. The opportunity of coming together like this, allows us to build these kinds of collectives and communities to support each of us in building the change that we want to create. A term came up “peopling up the room” with people who are committed to relational practice and CS, and I really like that term.

Ed: One of the difficulties we are having as we are thinking about this new paradigm of holistic thought or holism, we are making the reconnection between the heart and the mind. But I often say we need to go beyond that. That’s the first step but the true step is to connect the physical with the mental and emotional and spiritual. That’s the full journey. We don’t really get it unless we make the full journey.

Bill M: We are modeling being spokespersons for a collective, a group because when each of us speaks, we are speaking for the group we are representing, based on their best thinking. We are challenged to learn how to be more representative of our group, our community. This ability has been lost in our communities to some extent, and in the western world. It’s like electing a chief and council; they are spokespeople for the communities.

1. What influence do we want to bring to bear?
2. What are the webs of relationships that constrain or permit the kind of relational practice we want?
3. What would it take to make that flourish?

Bill: We are talking about implementing relational practices, and what influences we need to bring to bear. I like what Lorna said on behalf of her group, to make a simple plan. What is the first step we want to take?

Jennifer: “The process is the product” comes to me as a way forward. We can’t always specify in advance how something is going to look, we can’t know exactly where it’s going to go. We are in a process that is against injustice, and for relational practice. Sometimes to put a plan in place forces me into a place that is technical, but we can be guided by a set of principles that are against oppression, for social justice, for people’s dignity. So I resist the question a bit because I don’t want to replace ethical practice with technicalities. So being guided by ethical principles is a good place to start.

Rob: We are already beginning and it is a good way to begin it. We are agreed that it’s a huge thing we are facing. We concluded that there is also system change needed, along with individual change. Individuals can’t accomplish it on their own. There are some systemic issues that could be addressed.

Diane: One of the things we can do as individuals that will have an impact on larger groups is to go back to our own organizations and ask them to adopt this philosophy. In New Brunswick, we are asking the colleges to adopt this principle, to include it in their missions, their expectations of their members. That’s where we can actually have a policy influence by going to our regulatory bodies, our disciplines and asking them to incorporate this into the requirements of our professions. They can then push the Colleges to make curriculum changes. For example, is promoting and enhancing CS part of the CPA mandate?

Bill: What Jennifer said is really pertinent. I’ve been involved in this business for over 50 years and the issues in the 1960’s and ‘70’s have changed a lot in terms of our relationship as FNs with government and Canadian society and why? Because we used to be asking what the government was going to do for us and it wasn’t until the late 60’s that our leadership in BC started to say we can do a better job than the government is doing, if they provide the funds. We need to get them to give us the support so we can do it for ourselves. It’s been a real struggle but that’s been the trend. Now, we’re sitting with government and doing more to enhance their understanding and at the same time, to enhance our own. Under that process is the belief in an optimistic future, things we can do for our people. So there is lots to say for process but underneath that process are the values and lifestyles that embrace humanistic practices. Some of our modern day leaders are falling into practices that are not progressive, like MOU’s. There is a lot to be learned by reflecting on where we’ve been.

Ed: The process is the product. You’re describing a process that has already begun. We need to promote CS dialogue as widely and broadly as we can, forever.

Dave: The pudding is the proof – we all need to lead by example with all of the people we communicate with. We have to be able to listen and learn from each other. That knowledge exchange is part of the process.

Gary: We need to influence the funding agencies who develop policies and in such a way that they understand it’s our agenda for our people in our communities, for our well-being.

Lorna: What I’ve heard in the last day and half is, the influence I would like to bring to bear is for all of us to remember first our humanity and that all of us, whatever we bring, we are part of the human family; and second, as a member of the human family, I’m not any better or more than any of the other living beings on the planet. That’s what gets us into trouble, when we say that one group of people has more right to breathe the air than another. I have learned from my students, that in the end, we all need the same thing, we need to be part of the human family, and to be visible to one another in any circles we are part of.

Brenda: We need to influence everybody and everything, from the bottom up and the top down. In our circle, I heard it from policy, from practitioners, we need to influence in both directions so that people can feel a sense of belonging and sense of community wherever they go and whatever they do.

Vicki: I would like to think about the excitement of the possibility of this coming to fruition and I would like to influence that vision for the possibility.

Caroline: One of us could get Stephen Harper’s job and do it that way – we could go home and run for office, not entirely joking. But the excitement part of this is important for me. And some of Paul Farmer’s work in Haiti and liberation theology and solidarity. He says it’s not enough to bear witness to suffering. That is classically what many academics have done through research, but rather, any time we engage in an activity such as this, we need come up with practical pragmatic ways to have move things forward, practical pragmatic ways to mobilize change. I would like to see pragmatic solidarity with people on the ground, people who are doing this every day – like the idea of holistic medicine, which is now mainstream, but came from indigenous philosophy and feminist work. I love the idea of collective activism. That gives me hope.

Josephine: We all have gifts and something to contribute to the bigger picture. For me, at a concrete level, I can influence by modeling some of the things we are talking about, to embody them, to be congruent about them on a day to day level. I’m hopeful because the excitement is bringing our gifts and challenging the environment to live up to the values. In Halifax there is a mandate for cultural competency but how to we influence the system so there is congruency in a concrete way?

Farah: I feel strongly that we have to start with ourselves and walk the talk and the rationale for that, at a personal and organizational level. As the MHCC we can’t be a catalyst for that unless it can be the change it wants to see. This is essential. Also, for myself, as an example, it’s very challenging work that we’re doing and we can’t do it without feeling safe ourselves.

Bill: There have been lots of suggestions and philosophic good thoughts, but unless we put ideas like this on the ground and actively impact people, it is not going to happen. Very seldom do ideas change from the bottom up, mainly from the top-down, especially over the short-term. And that’s not a bad way of doing it – and the Commission’s bully pulpit status gives it that opportunity. We have an opportunity here of the Commission modeling that kind of behaviour. It should be incumbent on the Commission to have a presence at the upcoming CPA meeting and push the current president to have a keynote speech focus precisely on changing relationships from the podium, from the top-down. I’m reminded of the quote: “When you have them by the balls, their hearts and minds will follow” and that’s what you need to create change. We need to push change in the most expeditious and bloody-minded way possible. Sometimes change is not welcome except by those of us on the bottom rung who have the least power to make change.

Howard: It comes back to Brenda’s point about needing change from the top and from the bottom. We still have a way to go but I find it hopeful that the conversation is happening and it’s becoming larger. Bill’s is a hopeful message. We do have an opportunity here but we need to put pressure from the bottom-up as well as finding ways to engage the people who have power. We have to negotiate that in a very pragmatic way – transform our vision for change into something that allows that change to happen.

Chris: For me, it’s all about relationships at the end of the day. We need to build in these kinds of learning circles into our conferences, board relationships. In the Jewish literature there’s a quote; “What does the creator hope for us? To do justice, to love mercy, to walk humbly, and do right for your G-d”. “Comforter” in the New Testament in the original Greek language is ‘paraclete’; that means to come upon someone and help them to carry their bed. In the western model, it is a lot of talking and it is better for us to be paracletes than parakeets! We have the honor to be able to make that difference in the creation, and we are, we are, we are!

Phil: I love the process. It provides guidance for us. We need to follow the process. I so often define people who live their religion only on Sunday as hypocrites. It’s a difficult balancing act. In this process, it is one of centering for me. It allows me to develop a comfort and relate back to the days of peer support, but there is also a motivation to get out and do something to change the world. We could easily develop a paradigm of the rock in the pool and a group of concentric and expanding circles by providing the opportunity for dialogue for others in this kind of safe setting. But if we don’t live our own philosophy, it’s difficult to tell others to do it. We have a little piece of turf right now and we forget sometimes that we’re all going to be gone in some years. I’d like to see us move forward in ways that takes the learnings we have in a safe way to others. I hope the Commission will incorporate CS into all its thinking, not as an add-on, but into all the work. I would like cultural safety to be in all the chapters, not only one chapter. I hope we can come back together and reinforce ourselves on a regular basis.

Ells: Process is also a teacher. My hope is that we can enlarge the process. For me that is by dropping the word “cultural” and just using the word “safety”. There is no one that feels safe everywhere, and if you speak of that, you can bring the dialogue to everyone in their own world, and focus on safety. Cultural safety could create more of an “us and “them” while everyone can relate to safety.

Gwen: Pleased to have been part of this. Everything is based on respectful relationship and realizing that each of us brings so many parts to our whole. There is so much more to each of us than what is initially seen. This kind of meeting helps us to get to genuine interactions and we need to carry this out there with us as we leave.

Normand: I plan to go on walking my healing journey, to be a better human being, more balanced, let my spirit shine, that’s my responsibility.

Patricia: In terms of exerting influence, I’m optimistic that there has been a lot of change and we need to keep doing whatever we’re doing, within our spheres of influence. Change has started to occur and it will keep occurring. We need to look for opportunities to broaden our circles and to continue to support each other so we don’t feel isolated. And the partnership modeled in this meeting is an excellent example of that. The walking together is occurring and it needs to continue.

Terry: Everybody has expressed so well what our responsibilities can be within our spheres of influence. In terms of my responsibility, as part of this team, this project, there is the challenge of how to carry this process forward. I like the idea of broadening the dialogue in Building Bridges Three. We could think about the people that we want to influence and extend the strategy to include them in a process like this one. This relational process deepens our understanding as individuals and we know how valuable it is. The challenge is to alter perceptions. Bringing people in conflict into a dialogue can alter their perceptions and relationships. So I would like to extend the dialogue to groups that may not see themselves as needing to be engaged but do need to be included, to enlarge the circle of support and mutual understanding.

Bill: In the Round Table we organized in Saskatoon, lots o discussion took place about other issues besides cultural safety, but cultural safety was modeled in the process. If we gather in this way, no matter what we talk about, if we do it in this way, cultural safety will be modeled.

Richard: I’m taken with the first question – what influence do we want to bear? I spent four years in Northern Ontario evaluating CMH services and interacted with leaders, Aboriginal leaders, parents and children and it was really interesting: I kept asking myself the question: can non-aboriginal service providers provide culturally safe services to indigenous families? My answer there was “no” from the families perspective. In one of Bev and my focus groups, a psychologist wept and said “we provide service to aboriginal people but don’t have the capacity to provide services that are culturally safe”. This is the situation across Canada. I would like to see something coming out of this initiative where you are providing resource guides, training and education to support the professionals providing resources to aboriginal families, to help them be better at what they are doing.

Bev: One of the things that struck me was the critical importance of some of the community agencies working at the grass roots level and how starved they are for funding. Most of the resources go to the medical model. I think it is important to look at where the funding is going and where it could have most value. Focus on peer support, self-help and community-based organizations that are starved for funding, but where people feel safe and respected. These are healing places for many people.

Brenda: Last week, I heard a Doctor speak who made reference to Indigenous Knowledge and how western knowledge was catching up with us. There was a study I heard about, a brain study comparing English and Japanese people which showed that English people use more of the left side of the brain. The two groups were shown a picture of a sparkly fish in a fish tank, and the English speakers saw the fish while the Japanese people looked at the gestalt of the picture. We need to look more at the gestalt, the context, the big picture. We are confounded by the notion of confidentiality. We need to know what is happening, to talk to the family, to support them. Confidentiality is about individuality, it stops us from going to the gestalt part of it. Knowing these things can be a very important part of learning about CS.

Lorna: There are limitations in all languages. They focus on certain things, not so much on others.

Brenda: It was interesting when Bill and I were at a International Indigenous Mental Health meeting, for us to experience the divisions between the indigenous and racialized minorities. It was interesting to see the divide. One of the Maori women got up and she said something that struck me; “if you don’t address disparities in indigenous people, nothing else will matter – if the people who conquered the land don’t treat indigenous people well, they won’t treat other people who come to this land well”.

Diane: Just because there is so much more that the indigenous people need to teach the rest of us. Until they understand how much they can learn, other people won’t realize how important a relationship with indigenous people is. It’s a pot of gold.

Diane: I am thankful to have been here. It’s important to know that the ground zero work can be translated into a more cerebral conversation as we have had in the last few days, so that’s been great. There isn’t often the chance for that.

Rob: The discussion speaks to me of the need for life-long learning, for all of us who are in the business of providing help to other humans. You see examples of change beginning to happen, in the medical model for example. The Medical Association is at step one of a twelve step process of needing to learn. I think back to words of wisdom from Bill – we don’t know what we don’t know – and in terms of this process, I spent many years working with FN, in circles and I am conscious of the need not to misappropriate what is learned. Someone said to me that I was a great student of their culture and I realized I needed to remember that, that I’m a student. We all have our own cultures and backgrounds, and sometimes we don’t realize what these are until we’re older and can see the patterns. The respect and sharing and learning are what is most important.

Normand: For me, one of the greatest pleasures in life is when you work on being yourself more, you realize that it allows other people to be themselves much more and the quality of dialogue and connecting improves.

Gwen: I’m really happy to be part of this. The biggest thing I got out of it is adding richness to my understanding of these concepts, to make them deeper and add more meat to them. This is a very comfortable, wonderful way of doing things. In our Advisory Committee, this is how we do our work; we’re able to build a relationship and the work comes from that.

Chris: Different ways of knowing have helped me to know how to do different ways of being with people. Two days ago we were talking about recovery and now we are talking about relational practice and cultural safety and it’s amazing how connected they are. Coming to Canada, being here, facilitates all of that for me. This dialogue has given me some new words for talking about recovery and not to get hung up on the word recovery itself. This has led me to a lot of self-analysis.

Ella: It becomes a model we can take elsewhere – I came here thinking I would be contributing something to a process, but I have gained as much and probably more than I have contributed. This epitomizes for me a healthy process, engaging in a conversation that involves give and take and if we can bring others into the conversation we’ve done a good job.

Bill: The process has been interesting but I hope that we can use it to move things along – I’m always aware that opportunities come and go, and that the flavour of the month now, may not be in the future.

Farah: I feel like the timing has been particularly important for me personally. I have been feeling isolated and unvalued and just being part of the process has helped me be less isolated. I’m thinking about how I can continue to be supported by others who think similarly about these things.

Josephine: I’m grateful for the nourishment and sustenance I’ve received. It helps me to be all that I can be. I’m going to be reflecting on how I can take this and model it so that my environment can be safer and we can be congruent with what we say and what we do.

Caroline: This was really good. What I love about this is the optimism that if we are really nice people others will be nice to us. I believe that, but also I believe in being a bit subversive with the Commission. I find sometimes when I leave my safe haven I have at the University and take for granted, I’m often smacked in the face by the realities outside. I believe we should pull in people, nurture them, then take them out of their comfort zone, and. My concern with the Commission in that regard is that I feel like I’m patted on the head sometimes “she’s so cute and so passionate” and it annoys me. I don’t want to say to hell with them; I want to be productive and subversive. Through the work we did with the Round Table, in an indigenous space of uncomfortability for them, it did a lot of good.

Vicki: It’s been great and the dialogue has been so rich and interesting and there are so many things to think about. Many of us feel like we are working in isolation and what I love about relational practice is the connectedness; so you’re not alone even though you might feel alone, everyone is there with you. I’m leaving today feeling connected, so that’s great. I feel recommitted to the decolonization of processes and practices and the influencing and shaping that’s required. I also feel like our report will be enlivened by our dialogue.

Phil: I want to say that this process has taken Bill and I and our organizations almost four years and it’s been building a relationship of trust, encouraging, educating each other and it’s been one of the most incredible processes I’ve been involved with in my life. I think change will happen, it is an incremental thing. We will move forward. And thank you all for taking your valuable time to be with us, and coming and sharing your thoughts and ideas.

Patricia: As I shared with some of you, we have been reflecting in FNIHB, and this whole process has helped me deepen that reflection further. Certainly, I feel isolated at times too, and I suspect we all do. The chance to be here has been an important part of reconnecting and finding courage in this process. I see this as aspiring to a vision that we may never quite reach, but being here fuels continued optimism as well as connectivity.

Lorna: Thanks to Richard for his organization and making it easy to be in this circle, for what you did to help us to be here. Thank you to Ed for bringing your medicine bundle to keep us centered and knowing that we are not alone. Thanks to Bill and Phil for their facilitating and getting us to a place where we could have this conversation and to Terry and Bev for their recording. When we get the record, we forget so much that is important. I go away today feeling a little bit more at ease, although not entirely comfortable with the term CS. But any term that helps us to consider what people and communities need to feel that they belong and part of this place is important. For those of us who have experienced not belonging to many spaces in this world we call Canada, the more that we can name what that experience is, it can help everybody, not just us. Although the Commission has taken a big chunk of work to try to do as craftily as it can, to create the spaces in this country for those who have been invisible and marginalized, the fact that they are willing to bring people together to sit in circles, talk and share stories is a big thing and I’m grateful to them for that, and for all of the people in the organizations who have given of their time to be part of the dialogue. I come to these always open to where Bill and Phil are herding us, but I come willingly because there are so few opportunities to be part of such a community and I thank all of you for that.

Dave: I really related to what you said about the importance of taking time for ourselves – it’s so sad sometimes when you see people on their blackberries, all stressed out – and I think cultural safety is about how you manage our personal life as well. We are sometimes guilty of behaving in ways different than how we are trying to lead. We need to lead by example. I really think that this is going to get done and the people in the Commission are there for the right reasons. What I heard here is very applicable to me and I will carry it into the rest of my life.

Brenda: I’m grateful to everyone in the circle, for being vulnerable to sharing their thoughts, feelings and experiences about CS and RP, for being human really. When we open ourselves up to that vulnerability, we allow people to learn more about us and when we do that we tend to learn about ourselves even more. I appreciate the opportunity to learn about myself. And I’ve learned more about my children, so thank you for the opportunity to bring them here. I take away from this, the realization that according to Mel, I am done having children. I’m going back to work full-time now. I am recommitting myself to the important things in my work. Hearing everything everyone said reaffirmed that there are pockets across the country doing the same things, and when we come together we get reenergized.

Ed: I am going to repeat a story I shared in our circle to reaffirm what I received here and what I am taking away. This was a seminal teaching in my life that transformed how I thought about myself, my relationship with everyone and the world. It is the story of the ant. Years ago, working in Treaty Three, on a suicide prevention program with Alex Steed, we formed a circle for an Elder-Youth teaching/learning opportunity on an Island, the traditional healing ground in that area. We were waiting for the Elders and youth to join us, we had the chairs set up and the big drum in the centre and Alex was sharing a teaching with me. All of a sudden he stopped talking and was looking down at the floor. I followed his gaze and there was a little ant walking into the circle and he said, “Do you see that ant there? I said, “Yeah”, and he said, “That’s my brother. He’s no greater than I and I’m no greater than him. When we have this kind of relationship with others in this world, then we’ll have the peace we seek”. This story really defines for me relational practice and CS. What I’m going to take away is a recommitment to engaging in and supporting relational practice/CS and doing so in the widest and broadest circles that I can, forever. I don’t want to limit that in any other way.

Bill: I learned more about who I am and what I am when I started university. I think that is because I am an approachable person and got into really interesting conversations. Many non-indigenous people would tell me that they had no culture. But in high school, there were about one thousand kids and only about 4 indigenous people and I became sort of the counselor there, as the students came to me with their issues. When I was hired to do probation work I realized, I know how to do this work though I had no professional training for it, I could rely on what I knew worked and this was being a whole human being and I had lots of success. I had lots of arguments with psychiatrists because they had no tools to assess strengths. So I always embraced life and am still doing it here. I’m bringing from here an affirmation that we are doing is really important and we can invite others to join in future circles and help them to create their own circles. It’s been a real pleasure to learn more from other people in our group. It is the relationships that are so helpful in anchoring us in our lived experience and helping us know the next steps.

As far as follow-up goes, we will be reviewing the transcripts that will be added to the pool of focus group information we have and that material will be used as the substance of the action plan for the FNIM AC to mediate the learning of others in understanding cultural safety and relational practice. A further challenge will be how to introduce it to the provincial and territorial authorities.